She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
They are! Go to Manila... That's where a lot of modernized hot Pinays live! If you go off to the smaller areas, that's where the girls are more conservative and less modernized.Michele said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
... I am full english myself, there aren't too many hot girls around my area :l... they kind of remind me of quasimodo (hunchback of notre damme) in some cases *shivers*...SweetTooth said:
The ****. She's a little thicker, not bad.SweetTooth said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She's about average height for our age... she wouldn't mind me showing off the picture she seems happy enough to show herself off all over the net... (no she doesn't do porno) she has put plenty of pics up on the internet especially all them piczos and whatever...kegger said:
no. everyone here has a generous rating scale.The Shocker said:
True... I must admit, I think I'm STILL partially that way. Recently my scale for attractiveness has had an upgrade, a 10 has turned into an 8.5, a 6 has gone to a 4, and a 7 has gone down to a 6. From now on I've also adopted the mindset that NO girl is a 10.Michele said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Michele said:
Eye of the beholder, mate.
Good word of wisdom there bud, but I have to disagree...BluEyes said:
This is a bit extreme first off all. how many out of you thousands of looks-only-matters guys wouldn't hit if everything was perfect but her nose was slightly off?
Men are already judged harshly, especially by girls who are seen as more attractive. Just think, if you walk the wrong way.... Having a high rating scale doesn't mean we treat any girl less than a 7 like dirt, (like they will do us) it's a way of making sure you're fully satisfied with what you get. Honestly to me it sounds like your saying one should settle for a low quality girl and call her classy than put in more work for a girl worth having. And to be honest that seems completely contradictory to your idea of getting a "true girlfriend", unless you have a very BAD definition of a "true" girlfriend.
If you don't get a quality girl you won't be having very many 'good times'. Pook said it best:
Having standards means a bit more work, yeah, but a better pay-off when the check finally comes in.Pook said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Haha, but now it's not do YOUR looks matter, it's about the girl.Eternal said:
Touchout said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.