"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Post your field experimentation ideas here, and I'll do them.

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IsiMan84 said:
Soooo I take it you aren't in Fullerton anymore then? So much for finding a competent wingman near or around campus...
No sir! Haven't been on campus since I graduated. I can, however, offer you campus-specific tips for CSUF.

I remember one time at the TSU underground I rented one of the ping-pong tables (I went down there alone). Took one paddle, walked up to an HB sitting on one of the couches alone (watching TV), handed the paddle to her and said "You ready?"

She looked shocked. She had her notebook in her lap and backpack on the floor by her feet. "Beat me, I'll buy you lunch," I said, smiling. She went with it. I ended up destroying her though, so no lunch, but it was fun and we had a lot of laughs. Didn't really feel like closing either.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Approach a girl and tell her that you lost a bet and have to get her number for secret reasons
 

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Incog said:
No sir! Haven't been on campus since I graduated. I can, however, offer you campus-specific tips for CSUF.

I remember one time at the TSU underground I rented one of the ping-pong tables (I went down there alone). Took one paddle, walked up to an HB sitting on one of the couches alone (watching TV), handed the paddle to her and said "You ready?"

She looked shocked. She had her notebook in her lap and backpack on the floor by her feet. "Beat me, I'll buy you lunch," I said, smiling. She went with it. I ended up destroying her though, so no lunch, but it was fun and we had a lot of laughs. Didn't really feel like closing either.
Hmm doesn't sound like a bad idea to try. I'm a grad student in the campus housing so I could probably check out the TSU one of these days. I went in there once last semester and it was about 90% Asians playing ping-pong or video games. Any other time I walk around campus it's mostly people trying to get you to sign up for crap, so I generally go to the engineering buildings, rec center or library and back home. I've walked through the quad maybe twice. Where did you do most of your approaches from the past field reports?

As far as campus housing goes, I've pretty much just had a few parties at our place but it died down a little bit when we started having tests and stuff. The first few weeks I was hard at work getting numbers and telling people to come by our place for whatever event I was putting on. I was limited on opportunities because I have night classes while most activities are going on. I acquired probably 30-40 numbers in the first 2-3 weeks, but lots of dead ends. Getting off-campus students to come to our place is almost impossible. I got with one girl through one of the parties who I don't talk to anymore, but managed to get a couple regular girls from non-party stuff.

Anybody else I've met that doesn't live in the dorms is either through soccer or the occasional campus activity, but a lot of dead ends with those too. I went to a few of the sporting events last semester and turnouts were pretty sad for the most part. On top of that, compared to the Midwest it seems like a lot more work to get somebody to warm up to you. Whether the reward is worth all that work I have yet to determine. I'm sure it doesn't help much being on a commuter campus either.

Any other suggestions? I wouldn't mind picking up where you left off but knowing where to start would be a great help. Thanks.
 

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I'm not on here very much anymore, so when I do briefly visit (it's been about twice a year, unfortunately), I make sure this thread is bumped.

There are a lot of lessons to be learned in this thread. Keep your head up.

- Incog
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Two years. Two motherfuggin years man. Coulda used a wing when I was on campus. I'm back in Texas now though.
 
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