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Master Don Juan
I'm looking to add some new ideas to my dating arsenal, so where does everyone like to take their chicks for the second (or later) dates?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lost Cause
Don Juan
Offroading! And let her drive some of the time.
Hubris
Don Juan
Get liquored up then go to miniput. 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Batting cages and go carts are always fun. Provided you have those in your area.
Optional Drunkness factor:
Batting cages = I highly don't recommend drinking for obvious reasons.
Go Carts = This should prove entertaining! Just don't drink too much or you'll be sick.
Optional Drunkness factor:
Batting cages = I highly don't recommend drinking for obvious reasons.
Go Carts = This should prove entertaining! Just don't drink too much or you'll be sick.