“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Post your cold approaches!!!

G0gL2000

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Heres some cold approaches I have done.

Okay, so I went to the mall yesterday to look for some cute looking girls to hopefully get a number.

I tried abercrombie and fitch since plenty of the chicks working there look good and are basically standing around.

I saw one cute blonde standing by the cash register.

me: Hey! didnt you used to go to blah blah high school? (trying to act like I recognize her from somewhere)
her: well, I go there now. (she smiled and was surprisingly friendly)
me: Oh, well I thought you were someone I used to know when I used to go there
her: haha
me: I go to blah blah high school now.
her: Oh really?! (she seemed very friendly and kind of glad I started to talk to her)
me: yeah, I dont really shop here much, Im just looking around. Well, it was nice talking to ya, bye

So I didnt go for her number, didnt have the balls, it just didnt feel right in that situation

Ill post more later
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tuxen

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In situations like a mall, its usually easier to hit on shoppers, rather than shop assistants. Shop works get hit on many times a day.

Find some hot chicks doing some shopping, ask them where some good clothes shops are. Make sure you ask the HOT ones because they are the ones that love giving this sort of advice.
 

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Earlier this summer, I had a classic cold approach. I was out at the bar in a tye-dye t-shirt and glowstick around my neck, a seperate story, but I was a major spectacle and a little loaded.

Hanging out with my friend and his girl on the sidewalk-patio of a bar/club. I go to take a leak and tell friend's girl to watch my chair. I come back from the pisser and see a young hottie sitting in my chair. I act pissed and ask friend's-girl:

"what the hell, I told you to watch my chair and now she's sitting there".

The young hottie gets all scared and looks at me and I give her a big smile and say, "haa, just kidding, my name is rocky.mtn, you can sit in my chair" She gets up and wouldn't sit in the chair the rest of the night, but I talked with her for a while, told her what I was doing that night, she said that she wishes she could do fun stuff like that, then I say that we should hang out.

No # close yet. We chat some more, I need a beer and a piss so I go inside. While I'm doing my business, she gets a drink, and gets another dude hitting on her. They both go back outside, and then I go outside. I'm back at my table with my friend and his girl and she's now talking with otherguy.

I thinking fvck, I'm hosed now, my loss, nice try, better luck next time. But then I think fvck NO, from reading sosuave posts, I mentally took that as an obstacle, not an end of game. I go up and stand next to them, he keeps talking to her. I tell her "you look really nice in that blouse" BAM, her attention shifts from him to me (see.. compliments will work if you know how to use them). I say to her, "I'm leaving now, you better give me your number so I can call you" She hurriedly punches her number into my phone and says "you better call me" (a little psycho, but wth)

So I go in to pay my tab, and my friend hears the AFC she was talking to say "you're not going to call him are you?" and "I can't believe you gave him your number" or some sh!t like that. I come out and wish her a good night and me and my friends left.

Theres more, but this was the cold approach. I probably wouldn't of even talked to her at first, let alone got her number with out reading and doing the bootcamp and the whole sosuave thing.
 

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you guys are kidding right? i personally do not get you..whats the use of talking girls and asking nonsense questions ? whats your main objective? just to talk with them or something?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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rocky_mtn

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yup...

nonsense questions don't matter, at a bar you can ask a woman whether she likes ham or turkey sandwiches and you'll get in to a conversation where you change the subject to her and then to sex.

It just takes the balls to go up to a woman and say something. Women are all about the talking and that seems to be one of the major obstacles here, so for the OP to at least strike something up is good.
 

G0gL2000

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The purpose of this thread is to share cold approaches.
One can learn alot from their own cold approaches, but one can learn even more if he learns from other people's cold approaches in addition to his own.

So far, only one guy has posted an approach, but I wouldnt exectly call it cold since the girl sat in his seat, giving him an opportunity to talk to her. a cold approach is when you have absolutely no reason to talk to her, and you just approach her and start talking to her (by what ever means neccesary).

I wanna see some more cold approaches!
 

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I've used this a couple of times, but basically if I'm shopping for clothes, I'll go find some random girl to tell me what color the shirt/pants/whatever are, because I'm colorblind (it's true actually, I can't see green, or purple). It works greatly, because they dont expect it, and its an easy way to get them into a conversation (everyone asks me millions of questions when they find out i'm colorblind).

If your not colorblind, this probably wont work, unless you just need practice w/o number closes :D
 

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G0gL2000 said:
I wanna see some more cold approaches!
Here you go...

A collection of some of my FRs. Each one contains multiple cold approaches, the buildup and the after effect. I hope this helps...

Cold approaches, instadate, f-close (all in one night)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=10765

Hot pants Blonde (huge b*tch shield) kiss/number close
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=107134

2 Cold approaches, 2 numbers
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=104592

1 cold approach and number close
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=96262

One of my most successful nights, multiple cold approaches, multiple kiss/number closes
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=95947

Same night club toilet f-close, real simple/stupid cold aproach
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=94234

Good night. mostly routine openers/cold approaches
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=93819

A killer cold approach, my first f-close after discovering sosuave
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=92679

:)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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