Did the coffee thing first time around. Need something a little more fun and entertaining. I have some shopping that I have to get done. She mentioned that she likes this so should I bring her along on Saturday afternoon? Any other good ideas? Thanks.
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- Thread starter mecca411
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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seulaxplaya
Don Juan
no way
dont take her shopping. first shell pick out ur clothes and dress u how she wants to dress thus making u her little pet. Do something manly.
dont take her shopping. first shell pick out ur clothes and dress u how she wants to dress thus making u her little pet. Do something manly.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Sex at her place. 
Player_Supreme
Banned
yeah maybe after the shopping thing, a nice comfortable couch where you spend a few hours digging into her head. Read my post on convo to see the importance of this.
I'm in the same situation as mecca411. (coffee date...)
I have to buy a book about dream interpretation (not a specific one, I have to look for a good one) and I thought I'd take her with me as a second date. Then, when I got the book, go some other place (bar or home, watch a movie,...).
The opinions here in the forum vary concerning shopping dates, but they mostly concern clothes shopping.
As far as I know many girls are into this esoteric stuff, on the other hand, she might consider book shoppign boring.
What do you think?
I have to buy a book about dream interpretation (not a specific one, I have to look for a good one) and I thought I'd take her with me as a second date. Then, when I got the book, go some other place (bar or home, watch a movie,...).
The opinions here in the forum vary concerning shopping dates, but they mostly concern clothes shopping.
As far as I know many girls are into this esoteric stuff, on the other hand, she might consider book shoppign boring.
What do you think?
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.