"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Post Your AIM! Help each other!

Joined
Nov 8, 2005
Messages
867
Reaction score
2
Location
***** palace
I think it would be perfect if people posted their AIM/MSN and added each other. Here are few reasons...

1. You can practice your social skills and improve them. Give feed back to each other and improve youselves.

2. You can ask direct quetions, discuss and have cool people to share ideas, tips and knowlege. Also you can talk about field reports and see who actually is a DJ.

3. Meet total strangers and make new friends. Be yourself since your not on the forums.

4. Support each other.

Here is my AIM: CCKazi00

- I am open if you have problems or quetions feel free to ask and I'll try and help you. If you want to just socialize that's ok too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Joined
Jul 19, 2006
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
PeterNorthisawesome said:
Wow I guess 99% of the people on this forum are antisocial nerds who say that they're improving but spend their whole day reading useless articles and key board jock the whole day and share their "insightful" tips to other clueless kids. Well I thought it was a good way to meet more people and improve your social skills but I guess everyone here would rather solve their problem themselves. Which is perfectly fine so I request one of the mods to please close this thread.

Hey. Chill out, buddy. U waited (do I see it right?) for an hour and a half and ur *****ing that noone responded to ur thread yet? Huh? ur gotta be kidding.

I was going to post my msn, but when I read ur second post I thought I'd give up the idea. I don't want to be flooded by emotionally immature 'friends'.

Sorry for being harsh. Peace. If anyone wants my MSN though, PM me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Joined
Nov 8, 2005
Messages
867
Reaction score
2
Location
***** palace
Jeremy the Wicked said:
Hey. Chill out, buddy. U waited (do I see it right?) for an hour and a half and ur *****ing that noone responded to ur thread yet? Huh? ur gotta be kidding.

I was going to post my msn, but when I read ur second post I thought I'd give up the idea. I don't want to be flooded by emotionally immature 'friends'.

Sorry for being harsh. Peace. If anyone wants my MSN though, PM me.
You missed the point of why I made this thread. It's for everyone who has trouble socializing or want to improve social skillz. It's not for me, I was pissed because everyone b*tches and complains and ask the same damn quetions over and over everyday so to fix this and to help new DJs I was trying to make a social circle or a support group for people who needed it. But I guess your too cool and perfect which is why ur coming to this forums in the first place right? well I offered my help but guess noone needs it PM if you have a specific quetion later.

CLOSED
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2005
Messages
325
Reaction score
3
PeterNorthisawesome said:
You missed the point of why I made this thread. It's for everyone who has trouble socializing or want to improve social skillz. It's not for me, I was pissed because everyone b*tches and complains and ask the same damn quetions over and over everyday so to fix this and to help new DJs I was trying to make a social circle or a support group for people who needed it. But I guess your too cool and perfect which is why ur coming to this forums in the first place right? well I offered my help but guess noone needs it PM if you have a specific quetion later.

CLOSED
I guess you missed his point of why he didn't post his. His reasoning and mine are the same--you didn't even give it a day before you decided to
b1tch about noone replying to your thread. I see you edited it, but the fact remains, you wrote it--why--only you know that, so rather than him missing the point, it is, in fact, you, missing his point.
 

Chaos-Knight

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2003
Messages
183
Reaction score
0
Location
Western Canada
You know this wont help as much as you think.

The better idea is to find wingmen in your area,
there are "lairs" or groups of dj's in certain areas,
if you are lucky you'll be near one of those.

Nothing can beat learning in real life.

Not trying to flame you,I'm assuming you had good intentions
with this idea.
 
Joined
Nov 8, 2005
Messages
867
Reaction score
2
Location
***** palace
The Nice Guy is Gone said:
I guess you missed his point of why he didn't post his. His reasoning and mine are the same--you didn't even give it a day before you decided to
b1tch about noone replying to your thread. I see you edited it, but the fact remains, you wrote it--why--only you know that, so rather than him missing the point, it is, in fact, you, missing his point.
I didn't give it a day? well maybe I have BETTER THINGS TO DO then wait all day like you sitting in front of your computer pretending your "improving yourself" by reading the same articles over and over asking the same quetions every single day. How was that b*thing? b*tching would be if I called u f*cking assh*le for not contributing the thread and posting after I declared the THREAD CLOSED since people obviously didn't like the idea of adding each other and talking 1 on 1 and solving their problems faster. So bottomline just drop it ok? it's not gonna work so if you don't like it LEAVE and don't flame, it was just an idea.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

CompleteShift

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2006
Messages
26
Reaction score
0
Lol, I've got next to no game, but I find myself pretty good at socializing. Feel free to hit me up if you wanna chat :p.

AIM: CompleteShift
MSN: thewhiteneighbour at gmail dot com

I use my MSN far more often than AIM, though.
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2005
Messages
325
Reaction score
3
PeterNorthisawesome said:
I didn't give it a day? well maybe I have BETTER THINGS TO DO then wait all day like you sitting in front of your computer pretending your "improving yourself" by reading the same articles over and over asking the same quetions every single day. How was that b*thing? b*tching would be if I called u f*cking assh*le for not contributing the thread and posting after I declared the THREAD CLOSED since people obviously didn't like the idea of adding each other and talking 1 on 1 and solving their problems faster. So bottomline just drop it ok? it's not gonna work so if you don't like it LEAVE and don't flame, it was just an idea.
Maybe if you would've logged off, gone out, met people, and checked it again the next day--instead of waiting to see if anyone would reply--looks like you need to get a life.
 

Ace of Flames

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2006
Messages
1,500
Reaction score
16
Location
Everywhere you want to be.... I'm like a Visa card
The Nice Guy is Gone said:
Maybe if you would've logged off, gone out, met people, and checked it again the next day--instead of waiting to see if anyone would reply--looks like you need to get a life.
I agree. You only gave it an hour, and even worse, it was like the middle of the night, when the least amount of members are here. Chill bro, your thread is getting posts, you just gotta give it time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top