"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Post-Virginity Report

moneyisking

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I know you guys are players and probably fvcked girls nearing in 3 digits, but you probably all remember the first time yal lost your v-tag. I just want this post as a little self-diary kinda thing so I can look at some changes that happened after I joined the race of non-virgins; and also to motivate some bros out there who still are virgins.

Whoever said this was right. girls can smell sexuality out of a guy easily. After the night I banged, I went to work in the restaurant (I am a server) and I immediately noticed many changes that happened in my behaviors, mind, attitude, and people's reactions around me. First of all, I made a 40 tip percentage, had real good time at work, and this cute blonde that I have been working with for long enough asked me (first time) why I don't recount any relationship stories. It might not sound like a huge deal, but for little more than a year, this girl would never ask me thing like this (I tried to ask her out b/4 btw). Then I connected very well with customers and just cracked jokes here and there that got everyone laughing and having good time.

Like I said, I don't expect one lay to transform my life, but I do feel like a changed man; to paraphrase Pook's words, I could feel my sexuality shine without even trying. Things that came out of my mouth made girls react different to me than before. Even to this moment, I can't believe that I am not virgin anymore. I have been one for 22 years, and now I don't hold on to that title anymore, and can recount to friends about little fun sex at the pool. I hope this never wears out. So if there's any frustrating virgins out there (which I was), I imagine you would be trying in every areas, be it self-improvement, knowledge, books, academics, finances, attitude, mentality, etc etc, but you feel like they still don't help you get laid. Just get a tight azz body, and... I guess get lucky... I sucked in everything when I was a virgin, but now, I feel awesome, confident, happy, and sexual. Sexual frustration is NOT a man's friend. I really hope you the best. And sosuave, I am glad to have finally stepped into the real ground now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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haha, congrats bro, once you get that momentum you gotta keep that ball rolling...
 

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When you get to 5 or 10 girls you'll start to worry that the jock-itch you have is an STD, and that your sinus infection may be a symptom of HIV. You'll also find out how bad most women are in bed. Especially on top. You might even start getting laid left and right and realize that the "player lifestyle" isn't all it's cracked up to be. You'll be in your car, driving back to your house having just f*cked a girl that you don't give even half a sh!t about and think "wow.. Why do I feel so f*cking lonely and depressed?" You may even realize how awesome a mutual emotional and physical connection with just one girl is, and how unsatisfying no strings attached sex can be. Sh!t, maybe you'll even realize how bad it feels to not care about seeing a girl who actually wants to see you again.. Or maybe it'll take getting rejected by a girl who YOU'RE attached to, to realize it.

Congratulations.
 

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Korrupt said:
When you get to 5 or 10 girls you'll start to worry that the jock-itch you have is an STD, and that your sinus infection may be a symptom of HIV. You'll also find out how bad most women are in bed. Especially on top. You might even start getting laid left and right and realize that the "player lifestyle" isn't all it's cracked up to be. You'll be in your car, driving back to your house having just f*cked a girl that you don't give even half a sh!t about and think "wow.. Why do I feel so f*cking lonely and depressed?" You may even realize how awesome a mutual emotional and physical connection with just one girl is, and how unsatisfying no strings attached sex can be. Sh!t, maybe you'll even realize how bad it feels to not care about seeing a girl who actually wants to see you again.. Or maybe it'll take getting rejected by a girl who YOU'RE attached to, to realize it.

Congratulations.
Good point there unfortunately those kinds of women are about as rare as winning the lottery. So no point in looking for that, unless you run across it. Keep spinning plates, I suppose if there is one worth it, you'll know, but don't be fooled.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Korrupt said:
When you get to 5 or 10 girls you'll start to worry that the jock-itch you have is an STD, and that your sinus infection may be a symptom of HIV. You'll also find out how bad most women are in bed. Especially on top. You might even start getting laid left and right and realize that the "player lifestyle" isn't all it's cracked up to be. You'll be in your car, driving back to your house having just f*cked a girl that you don't give even half a sh!t about and think "wow.. Why do I feel so f*cking lonely and depressed?" You may even realize how awesome a mutual emotional and physical connection with just one girl is, and how unsatisfying no strings attached sex can be. Sh!t, maybe you'll even realize how bad it feels to not care about seeing a girl who actually wants to see you again.. Or maybe it'll take getting rejected by a girl who YOU'RE attached to, to realize it.

Congratulations.
U mad, bro? Haha.
 
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