"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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We know there's the constant arguements of how half the DJ's on this board are just KBJ's and continue to make post after post of useless advice. I'll admit right now that I'm not really a KBJ but an RAFC now trying to pull some women.

Why don't all the so called 'DJ's' just post pics of themselves with their girlfriends or FR's like Gods Gift and Animal Crackers so no one has to debate the fact that they "pick up".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Oh i will gladly post pics of heaps of my girls. In 6 hours i get back from work and il post some pics

Ninja out
 

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uh...i hate to say it, but before you started this thread, i hadn't noticed many blatant arguments of kbjs vs. djs recently.

feel free to start one though...:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by h2o
uh...i hate to say it, but before you started this thread, i hadn't noticed many blatant arguments of kbjs vs. djs recently.

feel free to start one though...:rolleyes:
HAHA. So true. But I want to say one thing. ALOT of the people that come to this board are total noobs. I've never claimed to be a DJ, but that doesn't mean I can't help to get my fellow guys pumped up about changing themselves!
 

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Well, people don't start threads on it but it's always mentioned in passing on a thread, so it must come up alot, a few quotes here...

: b

Originally posted by frivolousz21
just remember.....that a lot of the guys here who are anti-being ur self, anti-love..all hard ass..are mostly theKeyboard jockeys

Originally posted by Bradshaw
Whenever I read posts by people who bash a lot of the mASF stuff, and scripts, opinion openers, etc., it just makes me thinks that they are Keyboard jockeys with minimal field experience. If you use this stuff in the field (and are congruent because you got your inner game handled first) it works great.

Originally posted by Triple X
What I wanna know... there's so much talk on these boards about sarging/cold approaching or whatever. Like ppl will say 'get off your a$$es you Keyboard jockeys and do some APPROACHES dammit!!' and stuff like that. As far as I can see, this is mostly what a lot of guys here consider 'the field'

Sorry, I should have put more evidence to support my posting this thread:D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
wow if you care about proving to ppl on an anonymous forum that you can pick up girls, then i don't care how many pics you put up. you are far from being a DJ
Amen!
 

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I would post pics on here but when I met them I didn't brief them that their pics would be put on the internet for all of you to see.

Sorry.

:down:
 

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I would post pics on here but when I met them I didn't brief them that their pics would be put on the internet for all of you to see.

Sorry.
Yeah, I'm with Blazer on this one....
 

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Also its illegal to post someone's pic without their permission.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by tobby

Why don't all the so called 'DJ's' just post pics of themselves with their girlfriends or FR's like Gods Gift and Animal Crackers so no one has to debate the fact that they "pick up".


Because the last thing i need is for someone to see me or my gf's pic and recognizing us and telling my gf... and her finding out all the stuff i read and post.
 

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Ok

I don't really go around snapping photos of all the women I sleep with (around 2 a month, on average). I think that would make one come across as a creepy, desperate weirdo who must document is catch before she gets away. However, I do have a couple of photos from when the woman suggested we take one. Sadly, most girls snap a photo of me, but I do not get one in return because I dump them before that stuff comes up. lol.




Here is the imfamous tatoo of the woman who has an AIDS infected husband in prison.



Posting photos really doesn't prove anything. What is a lot better is a live tournament or something :) That would be just good fun. It doesn't matter where you place, It would just be funny as all hell to watch us trying.
 
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Re: Re: Post to end all arguements of KBJ's vs. DJ's

Originally posted by mrRuckus
Because the last thing i need is for someone to see me or my gf's pic and recognizing us and telling my gf... and her finding out all the stuff i read and post.
People don't think about these things when it's someone else's @ss on the line.
 

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Well, since my posting pics of all this stuff has its obvious disadvantages, why don't we have a live tournament or something like that. It'll be a DJ convention! Someone can see what works and what doesn't as well as who actually is doing what they say they do on this board.

Actions speak louder than words!!:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've started logging all my pickups and approaches, so that I can find out what's going on. I've got a couple of local guys logging all their approaches too. Someday, after a sufficient number of thousands of approaches have been logged, I'll post the results of the experiment.

I don't tape record as this might be a legitimate legal concern.
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82592

other numbers:

11 gf's

4 serious LTR's
1 was pretty short..yet serious.


22-25 sex partners
35-45 more than kissing partners
75-80 kissing partners



this is from age 15-currently nearly 23. most sexual partners were from 2001-2002 and then again late 2004-2005.

4 sex partners were more than 1 time..the rest were college girls from 01-02. and then from dating this yr..
I had 13 different women I went on dates with from november 2004 to may 2005..before I fell in love. of those 13..I slept with 8 on the first or 2nd date. not neccesarily sluts..some sosuave majic and my own game.

btw..I am balding....not in the greatest shape,(not fat) and 5 foot 6.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Also its illegal to post someone's pic without their permission.
Under very, very limited circumstances. If that was the case, I'd be in prison for multiple life sentences considering the number of pictures I've put up here.
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Oh i will gladly post pics of heaps of my girls. In 6 hours i get back from work and il post some pics

Ninja out
Its been 23 hours...
 

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Ok Ok i forgot here goes. These are all girls i have fu*ked. None of them are just friends or what have you.

My ex GF (still very good friends)


Hot muslim girl i met clubbing






Hottie i met clubbing it was a ONS but then i met her again and she became a fu*k buddy for 6 months give or take.







Chick i met clubbing she looks way better in person (im sure most of you guys know the story about this one) "You look so good in white" well this is her.......



English tourist i met in the city i showed her the good clubs in Sydney she showed me ......... well you guys know the rest



Sweedish tourist she was fun to bad she only had a week left in Australia when i met her.



This girl was so bad she done some crazy things this one. I met her in a clothing shop same one i met my current GF at acttualy. That shop is good luck....



This girl has a fionce. I have full nudes but im not posting them. All i got are webcam shots i only meet her for sex so i don't bring my camera.



Another girl the face shot in this doesn't do her justice in real life shes a HB8. As you can see she ahs an amazing ass.



Il post some more as i find them. I have a picture taken from far by a friend of me fu*king a girl outdoors but i don't think its appropiate for here even though you can see any nudity. I'll consider posting it.

Ninja out
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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