Ok so i've had a LTR for a while now and wasn't a virgin when we started. But still after every time we have sex, unless im wasted or something, i feel really weird for the rest of the day or sometimes into the next day. I love my girl and tell her that, but once i finish i don't feel anything for her. I even resent her a little. I really just want her to get out of my house and give me space for a while. She's always trying to cuddle or something and i just feel like running away. I usually get thoughts about breaking up with her during this time. But then like 5 hours later i start missing her again and everythings fine. Is this normal? I thought it would go away the more we had sex but it hasn't really. Maybe i should stop being in a relationship and just **** girls with no strings?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
post-sex depression?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Its actually fairly normal to have feelings similar to depression post-orgasm in males, this used to happen all the time when I was younger and first started masturbating. When I started having sex and noticed that something similar happened occasionally, did some reasearch and found out that like endorphins or something like that(forgot what they're called), that get released cause a chemical reaction that can sometimes cause feelings similar to depression and they only last temporarily. After a while you'll get used to it and won't have any feelings except accomplishment for having just boned some sexy lady 
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Exactly, it's all medical. There's this book called the "Multi Orgasmic Man" that goes over through a lot of theories and lab tested tests that show the act of ejaculating, whether through sex or masturbation, can drain a man physically and mentally.E_Sex said:Its actually fairly normal to have feelings similar to depression post-orgasm in males, this used to happen all the time when I was younger and first started masturbating. When I started having sex and noticed that something similar happened occasionally, did some reasearch and found out that like endorphins or something like that(forgot what they're called), that get released cause a chemical reaction that can sometimes cause feelings similar to depression and they only last temporarily. After a while you'll get used to it and won't have any feelings except accomplishment for having just boned some sexy lady