Ok so i've had a LTR for a while now and wasn't a virgin when we started. But still after every time we have sex, unless im wasted or something, i feel really weird for the rest of the day or sometimes into the next day. I love my girl and tell her that, but once i finish i don't feel anything for her. I even resent her a little. I really just want her to get out of my house and give me space for a while. She's always trying to cuddle or something and i just feel like running away. I usually get thoughts about breaking up with her during this time. But then like 5 hours later i start missing her again and everythings fine. Is this normal? I thought it would go away the more we had sex but it hasn't really. Maybe i should stop being in a relationship and just **** girls with no strings?
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post-sex depression?
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Its actually fairly normal to have feelings similar to depression post-orgasm in males, this used to happen all the time when I was younger and first started masturbating. When I started having sex and noticed that something similar happened occasionally, did some reasearch and found out that like endorphins or something like that(forgot what they're called), that get released cause a chemical reaction that can sometimes cause feelings similar to depression and they only last temporarily. After a while you'll get used to it and won't have any feelings except accomplishment for having just boned some sexy lady 
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Exactly, it's all medical. There's this book called the "Multi Orgasmic Man" that goes over through a lot of theories and lab tested tests that show the act of ejaculating, whether through sex or masturbation, can drain a man physically and mentally.E_Sex said:Its actually fairly normal to have feelings similar to depression post-orgasm in males, this used to happen all the time when I was younger and first started masturbating. When I started having sex and noticed that something similar happened occasionally, did some reasearch and found out that like endorphins or something like that(forgot what they're called), that get released cause a chemical reaction that can sometimes cause feelings similar to depression and they only last temporarily. After a while you'll get used to it and won't have any feelings except accomplishment for having just boned some sexy lady