"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Post-Sex Attitude

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AmIAFC

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Ok, let's say you've banged the girl (and the sex was good for both parties), but you see her regularly (not at work or school). What are some rules you follow to not jeopardize your chances of being a regular fuk buddy?

I've done the following:

1.) Acted normal (not clingy; not pretending we're boyfriend/girlfriend)

2.) Spoken to her like nothing happened


Is that what I'm supposed to be doing, or should I be more aggressive?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Flirt a little but for the most part be my self...


the most important thing to know is, that once you get a new girl in your rotation, don't be with her all of the damn time.. the newness will wear off and she will move on..

Break her off, be busy the next couple of days.. make her want to see you instead of expecting to see you
 
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Response from a female:

Avoid meeting once a week. As the saying goes "absense makes the heart grow fonder", otherwise she will fall in love with you.

Be a jerk, that way she won't fall in love with you and will only use you for sex, no emotional attachments whatsoever.

Treat her like a slut, and make sure you reschedule for another meeting that way she won't bug you will calls etc...

At all costs DO NOT stare into her eyes, or be overly gentleman like, she will fall in love with you and fawk up everything else
(damn those two Aries lol....oh and that Virgo :rolleyes: ).

This is terrible :eek: :(
 
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What I'll say to her(inside my head) is:


(1) You still here?

(2) Here' s 5 bucks, call yourself a cab

(3) Go make me a sammich.
 
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