"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi forum,

basically, met this girl in a club... hung out a few times... made out etc... then the 3rd time had great sex... (and she also told me she thought it was great btw)...

Anyhow, when i left i tried to kiss her goodbye and she simply turned her head and didn't show me out then yesterday I sent her a txt with no direct question but got no txt back... just thought it was strange behaviour...

Earlier on in the evening she was getting paranoid that I am some sort of player because she started talking about her other relationships and asking about mine but she still had sex with me...

i must admit that i do like her and enjoy spending time with her...
i've never experienced a girl going cold post-sex...
how would you guys play it ? and is she trying to play me because she thinks i have a collection of gf's?

thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Did you at least wait a few minutes before leaving after you finished?

That tends to piss them off when you're out the door before the bed has stopped shaking.
 
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magickarl

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After sex, I always give my partners a firm handshake and offer to write them an essay discussing the experience - The positives - The negatives - and how I feel they could improve.

Just kidding.

Hard saying, but I'm going to go with the player-complex. Try texting her again asking if she wants to go out in a day or two, and if she says no, then forget about her.
 
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Sex does not mean intimacy with some people. Some spots she won't allow you to go to or do certain things because that person may not fell comfortable entirely with you. Sometimes its the chest area and kissing I've noticed. If your comfortable with that I wouldn't worry about it to much. It does kind of let you know in a sense that she does not tie intimacy with the act of sex. Watch out for these signs if your in a serious relationship and all of a sudden there are "no no" spots.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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All women act differently after sex. Some are extremely happy, some just lie motionless, thinking for minutes on end.

I can tell you that I've had many a woman who would just turn silent after sex. Even after multi-orgasms and all-- Especially the first time you have sex with a woman. It's usually their mind just running and asking themselves questions like, "Did I just have sex with him? Is that a good or bad thing?"

To be honest I've had the best success with women who I don't contact after sex. First they become pissed off that you haven't contacted them. Then they wonder why you're not calling them (was the sex not good for him?).

Most women see this is barbaric, but like I give a sh!t. They know damn well if I were that guy calling back asking for sex the next day, I most likely wouldn't get it. We as men have to make women want it.
 
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yes, it's sunk in a bit now and i think she got pissed off that i left...

anyway, i called her and we had a chat and she seems cool...

will ask her out next week i reckon leaving some space is good (and want to hit some bars this weekend to meet some more chicks to avoid possible oneitis syndrome).

I really wanna play it DJ with this one... I tend to go AFC on girls I like... and girls I'm not so into chase me when i'm done with them! You guys agree that's the general trend?
 
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