"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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alright well prom went alright. i dident get to makeout with any girls or get hooked up like i wanted to. the girl i invited im currently trying to start somthing with so anyways the entire evening she dident seem too entusiastic as ive seen her to be before but she said it was cause she was on her period and had bad cramps?.

Anyways she left at midnight cause her dad picked her up and i had to stay cause i was going to dry grad at the school afterwards. I got a hug from her and i asked her for a kiss but she was like "no" "no way" when i pressed it, so i just left it. and just went on like nothing happened today when i talked to her on the phone. any thoughts on going on with this one? ive been hanging out with her a bit but how can i escallate it if she just denies me when i try and make a move it seems. (similer things have happened before to me when i try to escallate)

overall prom was fun after she left there was 2 more songs and i finnaly got to ask the girl i allways liked ,but before i was becoming a DJ could never talk to, to dance and then instead of chooseing one girl to dance with for the last slow song i danced with like 5 girls. also got a slow dance with my hot bio teacher :p

so any thoughts on how i did overall, and what i can do now with this girl?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i acually did, my best friend was danceing with my date so i asked my biology teacher to dance, we have teacher supervision there.
 
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You never ask for a kiss. NEVER
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Say what you will about asking for a kiss, but if you do ask, and she's says no way, it's not like she would have kissed you if you hadn't asked. Move on. Maybe to the Bio teacher. Do you have her number?
 
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