Theminatar
Don Juan
I got that when I was posting in my training log. Is that some sort of error? I have never seen this in all my years being on VBulletin forums.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Post limit?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Me, either. And I'm guessing my years go back even further than yours.Theminatar said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144511
see also my signature
squirrels
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
the powers that be had this theory, that if folks didn't sit around here posting all day, they could go out and meet chicks.
that being said, it also ended lots of arguments between other posters that bantered back and forth and derailed threads because you can only post in 10 glorious threads in a day. therefore, you had to pick what you discussed carefully.
that being said, it also ended lots of arguments between other posters that bantered back and forth and derailed threads because you can only post in 10 glorious threads in a day. therefore, you had to pick what you discussed carefully.