"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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post-ganji games reconciliation

shagnscoob

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okay, so i ganji'ed a girl, she definately noticed and is upset that ive been dodging her. she told one of my friends that ive been 'acting like a little baby and not being man enough to talk to her. dodging her, saying hi to her friends but not her' etc.... which im pretty sure is her just covering up the fact htat shes pissed i walked out like that.

anyway, she goes to my school so i see her every day, almost every time we make eye contact we both smile still, but thats uncommon since ive been making myself scarce.

anyway, its been almost 2 weeks, i think its time to say 'hey you ready to talk again?' or something, i just dont really know how to restart the relationship now that shes been totally out in the cold for awhile...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pretend that you where not doing anything diffrent, do not call her on it just act normal as if you have been doing everything as you normaly would. If she calls you on it just say somthing along the lines of "your choice if you want to play these stupid little games with me, but im not going to play along"

hope iv been a help
 

jonny football hero

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Ganji games? pfffff......

Why don't you just talk to her normally? She's pissed. You need to start over and make her like you again.

Personally i'd apologise (and i'm probably going to get flamed for it) and just talk to her. no need for Ganji-games.
 

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ganji games are bull****. they're very specialized and most people overdo them to the point of making it obvious.

let me tell you something. when a girl calls you a baby, this is NOT a sign of high interest. shocking, I know.
 

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Whatever you do, don't apologize.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
Whatever you do, don't apologize.
no, apologize if you ****ed up.

ganji games let her know she doesn't rule your life.

ignoring her for no reason (ie saying hi to her friends and making a clear point NOT to say hi to her) lets her know that you're a ****.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
no, apologize if you ****ed up.

ganji games let her know she doesn't rule your life.

ignoring her for no reason (ie saying hi to her friends and making a clear point NOT to say hi to her) lets her know that you're a ****.
hahah well she knows now that she doesnt rule my life :D


shes a db anyway, im going to try some sort of reconciliation, but if it doesnt work whatever

ganji games also help you get over one-itis apparently
 

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Originally posted by shagnscoob
hahah well she knows now that she doesnt rule my life :D


shes a db anyway, im going to try some sort of reconciliation, but if it doesnt work whatever

ganji games also help you get over one-itis apparently

NO DIP****


Now if shes got a brain in that dumb head of hers, she knows SHE DOES RULE YOUR LIFE.

IT IS OBVIOUS IF YOU GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO IGNORE HER.

congradulations chump, now this girl with whom you may have had a chance with, thinks youre an insecure piece of ****.



one more post down the drain.
 

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Originally posted by shagnscoob
hahah well she knows now that she doesnt rule my life :D
Once again, no. Jester's got it right.

even if she doesn't think she rules your life, she thinks you're an azzhole. well done.
 

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Man.....if thats what its called then I ganji my mom a lot :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
Whatever you do, don't apologize.
Apologise if you've been a ****. When will you learn? getting women is not about playing games, techniques or any other ****. It's about being a man.
 

shagnscoob

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Originally posted by Jester
NO DIP****


Now if shes got a brain in that dumb head of hers, she knows SHE DOES RULE YOUR LIFE.

IT IS OBVIOUS IF YOU GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO IGNORE HER.

congradulations chump, now this girl with whom you may have had a chance with, thinks youre an insecure piece of ****.



one more post down the drain.
ah well, like i said shes a db anyway :cool:
 
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