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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Post from the Orient by a guy that's losing all hope.Help needed.

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Puddly said:
Trying to shed some of the more debilitating AFC behaviours over my last weeks in Indonesia was great--it was obvious that once I started to read the threads that a few changes needed to be made. Thanks for the DJs who got me started in the right direction. Unfortunately I spent most of my time in that great country doing AFC crap and regreted it.

Back home for a couple of days now and being sent out to the Pacific now--Solomons and Vanuatu. Got a question for a master DJ as AFC affects yer professional life too--might have to be a private message though. New assignment be very different and no place for an AFC either--nowhere is really, cos you're not being true to yourself--had that sorted for a long time. Used to think I was 'missing out' if didn't have a girl around--just enjoying doing my own thing a lot more now. Got a lot of work to do yet though. :up:
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What's up Puddly,

Glad to see you're still improving man. Keep it up.
 

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Hi all. I've been a bit quiet lately cos I got sent out to somewhere in the South Pacific for at least the next few months so I've had to concentrate on work for a spell. Doesn't mean though that I haven't been trying to apply what I'm learning here practically everyday if not actually following the boot camp.
As I couldn't bare the AFC 'lifestyle' much longer--even if I have other parts of life sorted so am continuing on the quest! One thing I have noted is that if you are AFC vis a vis women, it follows that you act that way with work and business a lot too, so that's another reason to try to get a handle on things. Have been seriously taken advantage of business wise and can say that being a AFC was a reason. So while I say I have other things sorted out but after a pretty sucessful time as a younger bloke (even LTR with a 9) but turned to ruin (yeah a shocking case of oneitis) I sort of fell into some bad habits...
I don't mind saying that I have squandered a fair amount of cash/time in the *recent* past on 'renters' (pros and sluts). But its really not my scene and need to get into some social circles where interest is genuine and something a little more meaningful might come about. Anybody else been through these phases? Any insights? Cheers, P
 
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