"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jimjam

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Gents,

had a date lined up but she cancelled through text. Said something about getting together later on during the week. I haven't answered her yet, but I'm thinking of texting her something like:

"The way I see it, for cancelling you owe me a date, date-type date. Flowers, dinner, a ride, the whole works.

We'll meet up soon:)"

Then I was going to call her early in the week to arrange the date. If she comes off as flaky or non-committal----NEXT!

Thoughts?

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BlueAlpha1

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Don't respond. Come on man, that's an awful response. She's already "NEXT!"ed you. I don't understand why we as men try to mentally convince ourselves a situation happened opposite of reality. It's like when women get dumped by Alphas and then tell their girlfriends "I dumped him because he was an a*hole anyway."

She perceives herself as having higher value, your cutesy "you're a bad girl" text is going to generate an eye roll and she will never think of you again.

We've all been there. Want to make her feel pings of desire for you? Don't say anything, and run into her in 6 months twenty pounds lighter, with a tan and a hotter woman on your arm.
 

El Payaso

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Don't respond. Find someone else.
 
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