"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jimjam

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Gents,

had a date lined up but she cancelled through text. Said something about getting together later on during the week. I haven't answered her yet, but I'm thinking of texting her something like:

"The way I see it, for cancelling you owe me a date, date-type date. Flowers, dinner, a ride, the whole works.

We'll meet up soon:)"

Then I was going to call her early in the week to arrange the date. If she comes off as flaky or non-committal----NEXT!

Thoughts?

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BlueAlpha1

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Don't respond. Come on man, that's an awful response. She's already "NEXT!"ed you. I don't understand why we as men try to mentally convince ourselves a situation happened opposite of reality. It's like when women get dumped by Alphas and then tell their girlfriends "I dumped him because he was an a*hole anyway."

She perceives herself as having higher value, your cutesy "you're a bad girl" text is going to generate an eye roll and she will never think of you again.

We've all been there. Want to make her feel pings of desire for you? Don't say anything, and run into her in 6 months twenty pounds lighter, with a tan and a hotter woman on your arm.
 

El Payaso

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Don't respond. Find someone else.
 
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