post-first date review

[drellum]

So I meet this girl yesterday morning in some group activity.
I say "Let's catch up sometime - maybe go for a drink" and pass on my business card.

When I get home I get a text and she says "Yeah let's get together soon"

So I say "look, I'm going out a bit later if you would like to join"

She accepts and we meet up. It was great conversation for four hours. I didn't let her know too much about me and instigated some light touching at key moments (Kino?). All in all a really good night and ended with a hug and a kiss on the cheek.

So today, we are back in group activity with some other people and she seems a bit stand offish. I get home from activity and get a text saying "another good day" followed by a Facebook request.

would anybody like to tell me where I go from here....obviously another date - but when and how do I move it to the next stage? Does she have romantic intentions or friendship??

Thx in advance D

 

[Who Dares Win]

Not sure if I can help you, but is there any particular reason why u didnt try to kiss her on the lips after a 4 hours date and all the previous sign of interest?

Usually if u ask out a girl that same day and she agrees it means that she kinda like you as well.

 

[drellum]

Was just trying to keep it light and not too pushy to be honest.

and to be honest I didn't get clear signals that she was romantically interested

 

[Von_S]

A small kiss at the end of a good first date is almost a must, it shows you're sexual, shows you're interested and let's you gauge her interested based on how she responds. It's not pushy, it's a kiss. This isn't high school, if she's a grown woman and is offended or put off by something like that then good, it saves you a bunch of hassle, you can NEXT her ass and move on.