Post Date Follow Up

[syncmaster]

Wow ... um what can i say? This was one different date.

So the night started out by picking her up at a bus stop and heading out for bubble tea. That went well and we had a pretty good time. She was really into things. She's currently dating 5 guys (myself included) which was a big turn off right away. She said her limit for dating men was 24 and I looked 25. So basically saying I look too old however she was giving signgs that she was really into me. So this was conflicting.

We went and had our bubble tea and everything was great. The conversation was great and she paid (and that was great ) and it was generally a good time.

We then bussed to go see "The Exorcism of Emily Rose" which she picked out. So that was cool and I paid for that. She whole heartidly agreed that the cost should be split between the two people dating - which is another bonus. We were chatting and laughing the entire time and thigns were going well. There were times when she was distant and others when she was close...

So she said she was really cold partway through the movie and I asked if she liked "axe" body spray, smirked, and put my arm around her to warm her up. She moved around and then took my arm off her. It was weird because she was leaning really close... go figure.
I continue joking around and laughing as if nothing had happened. Note: throughout this entire night i was using fun playful kino which part of the time she got into and the other part she didn't.

So we're leaving the movie and her hands are wet after washing them in the bathroom and comes up and rubs them on my neck... it was kinda odd but kino on her behalf none the less.
We wait at the bus shelter to head home and she's standing really close but w/ her arms crossed in front of her (closed off). We get on the bus and start chatting. She asks how many other girls i'm seeing and I tell her how many (NOT including her... and I made a point of saying she's not among them yet). I told her she'd make a good friend - basically to boost interest level.

Then i bring up a topic we were talking about earlier that how she loves beer but can't have any. I ask why... and here's the kicker.

"Well I guess that the date is over now I can tell you I'm on prozac..."

Wow... what the hell do you say to that. My stop comes up and I get ready to get off. I lean over to hug her and the bus stops throwing me ontop of her. I get off and go talk it up w/ a buddy at mc donalds.... This has been one HELL of an odd night.

 

[stalluproar]

Some responses that may have changed the date for your favor (A Next for your own good or Attraction):

Dating 5 guys - "Hmmm. So you must be a player." Then later say, "Well I guess you haven't found someone that you couldn't handle (while subtly telling her through body language that she couldn't handle you)"

Dating limit is 24 and she thought you were 25- "I guess you would be a poor witness to the police if a guy came in and robbed this place. He would most likely get away."

(Comments) - You should have planned out where to go after tea instead of letting her decide. Also keep you hands to yourself unless you comment on her hair (or something kino related) and then push her away shortly after. Let the tension build.

Her hands were wet - "I hope that isn't piss on your hands" If she hems and haws, tell her, "What?? You can't take a joke?"

She asks how many girls you are seeing - "Does my mom count? You know, I think my moms friend likes me too (with subtle body language that you get it and it doesn't matter how many girls you are seeing)." Maybe follow up the 25 yo comment and the mom's friend.

(Another comment) - The good friend comment is good if you convey it correctly with body language.

Prozac comment - "Whoa, slow down. I've only known you for a little bit and you are already telling me your deep dark secrets (This must be done with laid-back body language)."

Not being there on the date, this is the best I can do.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Your report pretty much indicates that she wasn't all that wholesomely interested in you and her own life sucks. NEXT.