Post and share your FIRST approach story... Inspire us!

[silverwex]

Hey guys. Just wanted to start a thread displaying all our FIRST approach stories, how it went, what we did and how good you felt afterwards!

This is the BEST form of advice and source of inspiration in my opinion.

I'll go first:

Location: Outisde a Takeaway after a club
Time: About 2:30am

What Happened:
Ok so I'm waiting for a friend outside the takeaway with a mate of mine. See two chicks (HB6 and HB8) walking out the door. I have a quick look and think nothing much more of it.

Then they walk behind us and proceed to walk down the street. I look over my shoulder and the HB8 is looking back. I smile, she returns the gesture. My subconcious seems to have taken over and I continue to look at her with a smile. I indicate for her to come over to me with my index finger. She does the same so i say Fuk it and approach...

End up kiss closing her but kick myself coz i didnt ask her her number!

After thoughts:Feel on top of the world. Am in a good mood for days to come. COnvince myself to do it the next time im out! GREAT STUFF!

Remember guys: EC > Smile > Approach! Easy.

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Hey I got one, from when I was 15 or 16 I think....Me and my friend were in the mall, and I see this asian chick...Daaaamn, glitter on chest, nice red lipstick, halter top, and pierced tongue, she has to be at least 20, but I couldnt tell at thr time...So she goes into Foot Action and I follow her in...Now keep in mind I was like 6 feet tall back then and this is a short asian chick...So as I approach her, everyone knows whats about to happen, so they all start looking at me...

I asked her were she got her tongue pierced cause I had a friend who wanted theirs done (that was a lie) and we started talking...I tell her that we should hang out sometime and she says that we dont know each other well...I tell her we are getting to know each other right now and that we will know each other better as we hang out...When people hear me say that, they quietly start cheering me on...So then she asks for my number and I give it to her and she never called...lol...I couldnt even drive back then, lol...

 

[ToughGuy]

Nice!

I went to local market which is of hand made toys and traditional goods of househould.

I saw this gal on a toyshop. i wondered where i should talk to her or not.
and in starting couldn't gather the courage to talk to her
but after some time i went back to shop, bought a toy (which was of no use of mine), took her card and called up later on.

Made a story that my office going to held a child painting competition and want to buy a bulk of toys..

called her up and chat with her about toys and her participatioin in her business and then asked her out.

went on coffee date with her.

;-)..

Courage always pays.

 

[Lifeforce]

Ohh, the old times

Hmm.. let see, I think it was about two or three years ago, I was known as awkward here on this board. Was so WBAFC anyone could get, talk about twisted perception on the world. Did everything wrong and thought up the most bull**** possible and thought I was a major DJ

I was wearing some really ugly clothes, had no tan what so ever and was scared ****less. There was this library where I was scanning after chicks. Then I finally saw one, she was perhaps 4.5 or 5 and I thought she was REALLY gorgeus. I seemed to like the 2-3's back then.

She was looking at the books in the fantasy section, I was feeling so nervous that I shoke in my entire body, inside my gut was like a large creature where hanging and jumping around. It took awhile for me to approach her, I had NEVER talked to a chick before in this way, I had NEVER had a serious relationship, didn't even think someone could love me. I was thinking about something to say and with shaking legs I walked towards her, every step making me more and more nervous.

ME: Hi
Her: Hi
ME: You have any good books you recommend?
Her: blabbing... for a while discussing books
ME: I am feeling hungry... do you wanna come along?
Her: ok

It turned out she had a boyfriend, and I was here cursing about it in the old forum. Felt fantastic to be able to approach, when I approached the second girl I came back to the forum and wrote the only good post ever under the alias, awkward. It even got into the Highschool bible.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Eh. I need to do more, definetly

But my first one I was 16 I think, and it was me and a couple friends walking around the town, and we see this chick coming outta a restaurant in your classic little black dress. My friend bets me 5 dollars that i won't do it, but I walk up and open. She was latina, like hb9 20 smthng, I was stuttering and jsut said the first thing that came to mind, lol.

 

[So Many Ways]

I'm trying to remember my first cold approach. I believe it was when I was around 20 or so and I was attending Orange Coast College. Just so you get a feel for the surroundings I was in at the time, this school was absolutely swarming with fine women everywhere, I think it was listed at some point in playboy magazine as having the most hot chicks.

At any rate, I spotted this cutie from Kenya during a BSU modeling show that we put on and I was blown away. I convinced myself that somehow, I was going to talk to her. I had seen her around campus and she would smile at me but it took a couple of months before I finally nervously approached. She actually gave me her number and I called her but it turned out that she had a boyfriend. Oh well.

I think around that same time, I remember cold approaching a very average looking chick at the fair and she blew me off with one of those "why don't you give me your number and I'll call you" when I asked for her digits. Of course she never called.

 

[ToughGuy]

Well i have couple of more experience which didn't turn into date, but i forced myself to talk to strangers.

1. When i was roaming in a local market of mine, i asked a gal (pretending i am new to that area) Where is the Macdonald here?

Me: Excuse me!! Do you know which side is macdonal here?
Initially she was kind of in shocked and then turned and showing me the direction from her finger
She: That side ......giving me the full location Behind the building after crossing the road.

2. I was in europe for some time there i many times talked to stranger.
in a grossory shop, i was confused about the butter and was not able to understand the French i was not able to choose the butter.
So i see that a woman also browsing the products.
i simply asked her that i don't understand french and don' tknow which butter is which?
Can you help me i want...........so n so n so kind of butter.
and she spend her full five minutes describing me all types of butter available.

3. I get a group of gals and ask them
Can you take the pic of mine and my friend??

This camera thing is really easy to do.

Thats it guys
i think i am becoming better day by day with this site.
though i have to force myself a lot and i feel slight uncomfortable.
but i am becoming better.

Thanks to all experienced here.