"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Possibly the best pickup line to use at a club

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well, normally at clubs i like to just go on the dance floor and start dancing with girls without even talking to them first - and it works

BUT

I am thinking, the following could be a GREAT pickup line to use if u were to say something first:

You see a girl and you just saw her reject a guy - go up to her and say "hey tell me, why did u just reject that guy?"

from there she will obviously answer u because its not a lame pickup attempt, u seriously r askin cuz u jsut saw some loser crash and burn.

after her answer, prob best thing would be to say somethin ****y/funny

i.e. if she says "cuz he tried to use some lame pickup line", u say "maybe it looks like those would work on u ;)"

or

"i dunno, why are u askin me?" (with a dirty look), u say "i dunno, why arent u answering me?"

bottom line is - what do u guys think of that initial pickup line?

IVE NEVER FIELD TESTED THIS BY THE WAY, i only thought of this just today, adn i havent been to a club for 2 weeks now
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So let me get this stright....

You are going to wait around all night until you spot an HB rejecting someone and then come up to her and ask her questions as to why??:rolleyes:

My advice: Don't wait for a perfect moment and don't use pickup lines in order to hide your true intentions.
 
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ooooo he torched your ass, he's right tho, just go up to the hb and say "hi how u goin", guarantee it'll work just as well
 
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Skip, I thought you said you were going to stop making these posts.
And for the record, in the club, you wanna get in with a girl, and you see a guy currently trying to "get it" and she's clearly not interested, go up to her and act as if you are her boyfriend and say, "What are you doing over here, I told you to hurry up, come on." She will know that you saved her and she'll owe you.

Skip, stop posting. Why are you doin this for?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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donjuanforever....this post actually wasnt advice, it was more like a question - rare for me, but it was a thought I had
 
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ooooo he torched your ass, he's right tho, just go up to the hb and say "hi how u goin", guarantee it'll work just as well
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that's probably what the guy that she rejected said.
 
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DJDamage said:
So let me get this stright....

You are going to wait around all night until you spot an HB rejecting someone and then come up to her and ask her questions as to why??:rolleyes:

My advice: Don't wait for a perfect moment and don't use pickup lines in order to hide your true intentions.
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u didtn get wat i meant. What i mean is of course ur not gonna WAIT AROUND to see a girl reject a guy, but when u DO see a girl rejecting a guy, i think this would be a clever opening (and btw it helps to be good looking, cuz if a guy is ugly, no kind of approach will work PERIOD)
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
(and btw it helps to be good looking, cuz if a guy is ugly, no kind of approach will work PERIOD)
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please tell me you're not serious.. You know how many successful players are unattractive?

Style is a 5'6 balding nerdy guy who picks up some of the hottest women in clubs when he's out.
 
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keep in mind that its wat girls find attractive not guys - so u may think a guy is ugly but girls will be hot for him for other physical reasons that guys cant comprehend - fyi balding nerdy guys dont pick up hot women - unless they have lotsa money so dont kid urself - there are threads that kill this topic to death so go search for them, this thread isnt about this anyway
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJDamage said:
So let me get this stright....

You are going to wait around all night until you spot an HB rejecting someone and then come up to her and ask her questions as to why??:rolleyes:

My advice: Don't wait for a perfect moment and don't use pickup lines in order to hide your true intentions.
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WELL PUT... I think saying something like this is better "Wow, you know what, you are hot, I would love to make breakfast for you!" :)
 
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Thats a lame pick up line, if you can make it work then whatever, but bringing up rejection in your pickup line is not going to win her over. And you leave the perfect out for her:

you: so why did you reject that guy

her: the same reason I'm rejecting you


don't leave it so wide open.
 
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never tried that line as i said, i was askin for opinions about it, seeing as how talking to girls at clubs isnt one of my specialties
 
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