"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Possibly crazy girl, Ridiculous situation

Leporello

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I live in a classic, cramped New York apartment with a bunch of other people. I get along with my roommates but we don't really interact.

One of them has a younger sister (20-21) who is crashing while she looks for a job. We'd said hello to each other but never had a conversation.

Early yesterday morning, the little sister sneaked into my room and got into bed with me. I was asleep and thought it was a dream at first, but suddenly I realized - nope, that's a human girl in here. She has a cute little body and would do whatever I told her. BUT....

She didn't speak to me the whole time. I tried - told her what to do, asked her to explain herself, no answer. Wouldn't even answer basic dirty talk ("you want it harder babe etc"). The only time she said anything was when I was about to leave - she asked me what my job was.

Saw her again this morning. She seemed incredibly embarrassed and was reluctant to kiss me, even though nobody else was around.

This is such a weird situation i don't know what to do about it. i think i'll just let it go...if she wants to visit me again, fine. I won't force anything. It's not like I want a relationship with her.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MtnMan

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did you bang?
sounds awesome.
 

Leporello

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MtnMan said:
did you bang?
sounds awesome.
Sure did.

It IS awesome. But it can't be normal, can it?
 

MtnMan

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this happened to a friend of mine with another one of our mutual friends. She just went into his room, got in his bed and they banged. Never spoke of it again. Can't say how normal it is, but it sure sounds fun. Wish it would happen to me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don-Kong

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surely this is the good situation? No drama, no hassle, no text game nothing. ha ha.

Personally, i like the game better. Thats what turns me on. Its exciting but this i guess beats knocking one out for this week.
 

Leporello

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MtnMan said:
Can't say how normal it is, but it sure sounds fun. Wish it would happen to me.
Doesnt seem like one of those things you can make happen. It's not as if I was running game on her or anything.
 

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Yeah it's a little weird, but hey just roll with it. Ride that fückin train right off the rails and into the forest! :up: :rockon:
 

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Possibly crazy.

Or possibly the most sane girl you will ever meet. Time will tell.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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