Possibly addicted/obsessed with PUA?

[jdawgmcb]

Alright guys, here's my problem

Recently i've grown OBSESSED with the pick up artist methods, and i've watched hours of video on end (some pick up artist shows multiple times) and even written notes down.

I am beginning to observe other people and how they convey themselves in a public gathering, but i still haven't made it past C1.

C1 = comfort stage 1, building rapport, etc.

The attraction is there, and I can build comfort...but i always have a hard time going from here.

I usually meet girls during classes in the day time as well, I don't usually go out at night.

Is it possible to be too obsessed with PUA that it's a bad thing?

What can i do to get past C1?

 

[mongolboy]

TO build comfort is just common sense talk about subjest that convey you are a very friendly and good guy that you are not interesting i getting in her pants. But what i usually do is i just talk to her LIKE IVE KNOWN HER FOREVER! start being really friendly and flirty is just common sense...... All that pickup artist **** gets ****in way 2 old and i dont feel natural anymore but its a great way 2 start GOOD LUCK AND REMEMBER THAT CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY
Act like you got her already or you can get her. na mean? that was kinda wierd reply but u can make a lil somethin something outta it.

 

[jdawgmcb]

I get to that point, but afterwords i usually cut off commune or get LJBF'd.

 

[mongolboy]

If their saying LJBF'd or cut off during commun. that means there is a flaw in your game. Either you are not showing enough interest or being interesting is usually in my case i noticed but this time i just start off flirting right on nam sayin? **** there is 3 billion girls in the world and you got 28.526 days 2 live GET BUSY!

 

[jdawgmcb]

if you think about prime PUAing days, probably 16-30ish give or take some for different people...then you look at more of a

5,110 days from your 16th birthday...calculate how many you have wasted...there you go...

from your 21st birthday to your 30th..
3285 days.

 

[Maxtro]

Something similar to what you have brought up. I feel that I may have gathered too much information. I understand so much now about what it takes to attract women and have sex with them, and everything that is required. But I feel that I can't pull any of it off. I feel that I am not good enough for women because I am not what girls want.

It really sucks knowing why I can't get a girl but not having the power to do what it takes to become what girls want. I feel that reading too much PUA material and this forum as brought me down lower than I started at...

 

[jdawgmcb]

Something similar to what you have brought up. I feel that I may have gathered too much information. I understand so much now about what it takes to attract women and have sex with them, and everything that is required. But I feel that I can't pull any of it off. I feel that I am not good enough for women because I am not what girls want.

It really sucks knowing why I can't get a girl but not having the power to do what it takes to become what girls want. I feel that reading too much PUA material and this forum as brought me down lower than I started at...

saying that your 26th birthday was today, you have 1460 days until your 30 years old.

Get on it. You live once.