"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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possible pregnancy! please help!

the_azn_fu

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so my girlfriend and i had sex with a condom, but a few weeks later, she had some bleeding, much earlier than when her period should be. possibly ealry pregnancy bleeding? also, she has been feeling naseuous. we used apregnancy test, but it showed negative. wlel try again soon, but were both 17 and were too young to raise a baby! any options besides abortion to stop a possible pregnancy?
ANY help would be a appreciated. thank you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sexy_kuta

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kick her in the stomach seriously..

my cuzins dog pushed his gf down the stairs and killed the baby.. harsh

but thats an option besides an abortion
 

Mr_rogers

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sexy_kuta said:
kick her in the stomach seriously..

my cuzins dog pushed his gf down the stairs and killed the baby.. harsh

but thats an option besides an abortion
... something tells me that an abortion would be kinder.:down:
 

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heres wat u do...

take her to the doctor so u KNOW FOR SURE if shes pregent
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KillaCam

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Chill, relax, settle down, mellow.

The pregnancy test was negative. If you still have concerns, go to the doctors.

Do not even conteplate other options until you know what is in front of you. Abortion is a word you do not use unless you are certain she is pregnant.

Now, have a beer, sit down, give her a call, and work out a time to head to the doctors. After that, you can assess.
 

eminence

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early bleeding? never heard of that being related to pregnancy before
 

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eminence said:
early bleeding? never heard of that being related to pregnancy before
thats because its not. lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yea bleeding mite actually be a good sign a stop of bleeding is wat u should be scared of breathe dude ur ok for now
 
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