Possible Friendzone - Recovery Tips

[clobberingTime]

Last couple of weeks have been hanging round with a group of 3 girls with another guy mate occasionally, going on a few nights out together (sometimes with a large group, sometimes just 4 or 5 of us) or just hanging in the evening in a flat for a few hours. Definitely friended 2 of them but the one I like i've tried to be more flirty etc around when i'm with her and when i'm texting her. And we get flirty with each other a lot when been drinking getting touchy feely and have some sexual conversation. Not like that during the day but i don't know if that's just because I have a lot less confidence when I have not been drinking. With this flirting we haven't kissed and have gotten with other people during a night out. If its all of the girls together they will talk about specific guys being hot etc like normal friend zone behaviour. So I assume it is very likely that the girl i like also has friend zoned me completely? There's a party happening tonight so when the normal flirting begins like i assume it will would my best option be just to go in for a kiss or say something on the lines of "have i ever told you i find you very attaractive" first? I assume i could tell poretty quickly here if i'm completely in the friend zone or not. If i'm rejected here I assume its unrecoverable or is there something else i can do first to try and recover the situation? Thanks.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

i assume it will would my best option be just to go in for a kiss or say something on the lines of "have i ever told you i find you very attaractive" first?

Def DO NOT tell her that you find her very attractive as a safe-guard to see if she's open to hooking up with you.

Watch her non-verbal signs. If she is touching you, flirting, smiling and overall enjoying herself with you, then take that as a sign of interest and go in for the kiss.

If she feels anywhere close to what you feel she will be more than happy to play tonsil hockey with you.










PIMP

 

[clobberingTime]

Def DO NOT tell her that you find her very attractive as a safe-guard to see if she's open to hooking up with you.

Yeah I think saying things like that has been a common problem of mine.. I guess it's never good to say something like that?

Watch her non-verbal signs. If she is touching you, flirting, smiling and overall enjoying herself with you, then take that as a sign of interest and go in for the kiss.

I've taken that kind of interest from her in the past as her just being a flirty friend and haven't wanted to act to ruin any friendship between her or any of her firends but i assume I really just need to go for it if it happens again tonight otherwise any interest level she may have will completely go.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Just get wasted and have a go. Any unpleasantness can be explained away by the booze!
Better to have a go and know for sure than not and forever be wondering.