"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Possible for a comeback?

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Is it possible if a girl originally felt crazily attracted to u, but coz im was ******* stupid and waited too long, now i landed in the friend zone, but a close and good friend to her though. Is it in anyway possile that i can get out of this friend zone and make her feel the same way towards me again?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Lostwithoutacost
Is it possible if a girl originally felt crazily attracted to u, but coz im was ******* stupid and waited too long, now i landed in the friend zone, but a close and good friend to her though. Is it in anyway possile that i can get out of this friend zone and make her feel the same way towards me again?
Very possible.

Step #1: Get off the forum, and take action.
Step #2: "What action?" Go "hang out." See a movie, grab a slice of pizza, and walk around. Play pool, go to a club. Whatever you do just enjoy YOURSELF. If you enjoy YOURSELF, she will enjoy your company.

This is the best way to raise a girl's interest. Let her get to know you, give her the opportunity to "fall" for you.

Some people need a little visual aid to understand who they like, others need to fall out of a window to realize they like someone.

But how will you know when to "ask her out?"

You WILL know. Take my word for it.

Be a man, make the decision. Sometimes it is best to wait, other times it's best to ask after the first meeting.

It's your call, keep me updated. I am curious.
 

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
a comeback is always possible, it is jut a matter of whether or not it will be worht it in the long run.

Oh, in that case. Don't date ANYONE until you are ready to commit (marry).

Post Script

90% of all adolensent relationships fail.

So it's better to take Fiend's advice, unless you plan to marry this girl. Okay?

:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hey sorry to say this lost but you got oneitis. Anyways go out with her the first time and bring other girls with you. Flirt with them alot and only flirt with her a little bit otherwise ignore her. Eventually she will probably start gettin at least a little jealous and act on it. She will probably try really hard to get you back if she sees you with other girls and sees how confident you are.
 
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