Possible flake

[Desert Rose]

Whats up guys, I live in New York and we are supposed to get a large storm tomro. I have a date with a girl at night that we planned monday; we had a convo that went like this today (Skipping the bs)..

Her: blah blah blah the weather is supposed to be bad tomro
Me: yea prolly
Her: ok
Me: it doesnt matter
Her: why?
Me: i drove all night in that **** last week (just bought a 2003 gmc).. im sayin if you dont feel safe or w/e thats fine but ill be out anyway
Her: k we will see

I didnt respond after that, and we haven't talked since then. I am considering not even getting ahold of her tomro for the simple reason that she flaked out on a concert date with me once already. Idk what are your opinions, and how should respond if she does say its too risky or w.e. The weather excuse is a touchy situation and has brought up a strange situation for me. Give me some pointers guys, thanks in advance.

 

[MisterMcGee]

I'd say, if you're really interested in her, keep going until she makes it clear she's not interested. "Make the ho say no" lol. When things are 'fuzzy' like this, disregard little BS-y complications and trust only the overt signals.
Keep escalating and being your awesome self. Either she'll open up to you and lower her defenses (a thing I think isn't taken into enough account here), or she'll make it clear she's not into you.
I believe they call it confident persistence. "She couldn't have possibly flaked on you cause of YOU. Psh, PLEASE! She's just being a silly girl, so deal with it without letting it affect you for a while - let her make a smart decision rather than not having a chance to come to her senses."

She may also string you along, but it'll be obvious when that times comes. I don't believe you're there yet.

 

[Desert Rose]

Yea good response mister, however she knows enough about me we've known eachother for a long time and shes been showing very high interest by sending me naked pics on the phone. She seems very frustrated with the fact that I dont talk to her that much; she initiates contact most of the time and I don't say much, but enough. My reaction to tomorrow is gonna be a high test for the type of person I want to be.. I want to make sure I'm laying a base of strength and show I dont ever get pushed around.