"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Possible BPD help..

Muscobra449

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Hey guys kind of new but have been reading a lot. I had a girlfriend for 4 years on and off in high school and now am a single junior in college.

I broke up with my ex-girlfriend senior year of high school and didn't talk to her despite her trying to until this year (she got another boyfriend 3 months after we broke up). So now I am talking to her again and she says she wants to **** when we are home and this and that. But then I ask if she is still talking to her old boyfriend who she recently broke up with and she says yes.

What I get the sense of is her trying to hold on to everything she touches (she is very degrading to herself). Which leads me to believe she has pretty bad BPD. I have been playing it the best I can but I want to get another opinion.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Muscobra449

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Never mind just started to do some searching I think i found my answer
 
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Muscobra449 said:
Never mind just started to do some searching I think i found my answer
You have a bright future on here. Welcome :up:
 
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