the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
I am in a relationship with a girl who seems very possessive towards me, for example: she thinks it's perfectly acceptable if she talks on the phone with someone while she's out with me (it's a guy she's usually on the phone with that she calls her "long lost friend") but when I receive phone calls from my friends (usually females), she gets all loud and asks "who is that?" and she's always upset if I ignore her while I'm on the phone. The fact that I was on the phone alone upsets her too, she says "You shouldn't be talking on the phone on MY time." But it's alright if she talks on the phone while she was on my time. And whenever I try talking to her while we're driving, she'll hear her favorite song come on (it seems like everytime we talk, her favorite song comes on) and she'll turn the car radio up full-blast (i'm thinking it's to drown out the sound of my voice).
Another thing, the other day, she was telling me how she thinks I have no common sense or that I don't use my common sense when i need it, or she talks about how I be doing dumb/retarded/stupid stuff that irritates her. She does some pretty dumb stuff too, but I don't bust on her about it, because I know everyone does stupid stuff from time to time. Andrea is 17, and I'm 20, and she says that she feels like she knows more than I do. Like, when we go to the bank or car lot together, she does all the talking because she doesn't want me to say nothing stupid- I let her do all of the talking, and when it comes down to where I have to talk, I say things that dissatisfy her because I really don't care to be at the bank or at a car lot. Why am I at the car lot or bank? Because she thinks that we should combine our incomes so that we can get a car at the car lot. She's added me to her account, and I have put money in there. Really dumb, I know. But why do I let it happen? Because I really don't want to hear her mouth because she has a REAL attitude problem. Deep down inside, I get the feeling that she's not TRUE to our relationship.
My mom let me get her car for school and work purposes ONLY. I do want to be with my girlfriend so I bend my mom's rules to be with her; mother doesn't want any other person in her car but ME. But I always have Andrea in it. Not only that, but Andrea doesn't like how I drive, so I ALWAYS let her drive my mom's car because I want us together (Andrea says if I don't let her drive, she won't ride). I thought that was bad just letting her drive the car because she has NO license or permit to drive (but she can drive). Then from there it went from her dropping me off at work while she goes to work later. I mean, she could get another ride, but I'm her man, and I want to do things for her. Then one day where i didn't have to work and her shift ends early, she asks me "Mike, let me get the car to myself. Let me drop you off at your friend's house while I go out and chill with my friends." I thought she was VERY crazy. I wondered why she didn't want me to be with her in my MOTHER'S car. She says that she just wants to be by her self sometimes and go out instead of me always being around and that we spend about 80% of HER time together. I told her "no", and she got mad. I foolishly changed my mind and decided to let her get the car and she dropped me off at my friend's house. I told them about it, and they laughed and made fun of me; I deserved it. She brought me the car back REALLY late, and when she came to get me, she looked REALLY NICE/ SEXY AS HELL. But why? She had the car all to herself, going lord-knows-where with lord-knows-who, doing lord-knows-what. I didn't care to ask, but I became concerned when I got into the passenger seat and the seat was leaned all the way back (like another guy was in the car). I let it slide.
She's a so-called "virgin" which is very hard for me to believe, but she based our relationship on us being virgins (I am a virgin). Every so foten, she'll ask me to mastrubate in front of her. At first, I felt lukewarm about the idea, but I got so used to mastrubating in front of her that it's like a "6th Sense". She likes for me to mastrubate in front of her because she says it's "entertaining". She's even ejaculated it for me a few times. But... I have NEVER even seen this girl's NIPPLE or anything. The most revealing I've seen of her was her cleavage or her belly button ring. She says she's not ready to show herself off to me, yet I do it for her all the time- she enjoys watching me climax (as sick as that sounds). She even bought me a fake vagina to use in front of her, as contradicting as that sounds. She says this turns her on, but she doesn't even want to pop the nipples to me in the least.
I think this relationship is taking a toll on me; I being turned off by her attitude and control, we always argue, we don't communicate enough, and I don't have a backbone towards her. In a argument, if I'm mad at her about something, she has a way of turning the tables on me and she'll end up being mad at me over what I was mad at her about (Crazy..) I can feel my interest level going down fast, it's to the point where I look forward to knowing if she's cheating on me or I could care less if she's on the phone with another guy or if she wants to make NEW male friends. I hope that someone can steal her from me. I really don't like out relationship anymore because it's all based on how she feels about everything; not about how WE feel or how I feel. Everything seems based on her feelings. I really don't use my common sense in this relationship, and even now, I don't care enough about our relationship, or do I? I don't know I'm so confused. And the story doesn't end here, but I don't want to get into anymore detail. Could you help me from here?
Mike- who lets his girlfriend have her way 24/7.
Another thing, the other day, she was telling me how she thinks I have no common sense or that I don't use my common sense when i need it, or she talks about how I be doing dumb/retarded/stupid stuff that irritates her. She does some pretty dumb stuff too, but I don't bust on her about it, because I know everyone does stupid stuff from time to time. Andrea is 17, and I'm 20, and she says that she feels like she knows more than I do. Like, when we go to the bank or car lot together, she does all the talking because she doesn't want me to say nothing stupid- I let her do all of the talking, and when it comes down to where I have to talk, I say things that dissatisfy her because I really don't care to be at the bank or at a car lot. Why am I at the car lot or bank? Because she thinks that we should combine our incomes so that we can get a car at the car lot. She's added me to her account, and I have put money in there. Really dumb, I know. But why do I let it happen? Because I really don't want to hear her mouth because she has a REAL attitude problem. Deep down inside, I get the feeling that she's not TRUE to our relationship.
My mom let me get her car for school and work purposes ONLY. I do want to be with my girlfriend so I bend my mom's rules to be with her; mother doesn't want any other person in her car but ME. But I always have Andrea in it. Not only that, but Andrea doesn't like how I drive, so I ALWAYS let her drive my mom's car because I want us together (Andrea says if I don't let her drive, she won't ride). I thought that was bad just letting her drive the car because she has NO license or permit to drive (but she can drive). Then from there it went from her dropping me off at work while she goes to work later. I mean, she could get another ride, but I'm her man, and I want to do things for her. Then one day where i didn't have to work and her shift ends early, she asks me "Mike, let me get the car to myself. Let me drop you off at your friend's house while I go out and chill with my friends." I thought she was VERY crazy. I wondered why she didn't want me to be with her in my MOTHER'S car. She says that she just wants to be by her self sometimes and go out instead of me always being around and that we spend about 80% of HER time together. I told her "no", and she got mad. I foolishly changed my mind and decided to let her get the car and she dropped me off at my friend's house. I told them about it, and they laughed and made fun of me; I deserved it. She brought me the car back REALLY late, and when she came to get me, she looked REALLY NICE/ SEXY AS HELL. But why? She had the car all to herself, going lord-knows-where with lord-knows-who, doing lord-knows-what. I didn't care to ask, but I became concerned when I got into the passenger seat and the seat was leaned all the way back (like another guy was in the car). I let it slide.
She's a so-called "virgin" which is very hard for me to believe, but she based our relationship on us being virgins (I am a virgin). Every so foten, she'll ask me to mastrubate in front of her. At first, I felt lukewarm about the idea, but I got so used to mastrubating in front of her that it's like a "6th Sense". She likes for me to mastrubate in front of her because she says it's "entertaining". She's even ejaculated it for me a few times. But... I have NEVER even seen this girl's NIPPLE or anything. The most revealing I've seen of her was her cleavage or her belly button ring. She says she's not ready to show herself off to me, yet I do it for her all the time- she enjoys watching me climax (as sick as that sounds). She even bought me a fake vagina to use in front of her, as contradicting as that sounds. She says this turns her on, but she doesn't even want to pop the nipples to me in the least.
I think this relationship is taking a toll on me; I being turned off by her attitude and control, we always argue, we don't communicate enough, and I don't have a backbone towards her. In a argument, if I'm mad at her about something, she has a way of turning the tables on me and she'll end up being mad at me over what I was mad at her about (Crazy..) I can feel my interest level going down fast, it's to the point where I look forward to knowing if she's cheating on me or I could care less if she's on the phone with another guy or if she wants to make NEW male friends. I hope that someone can steal her from me. I really don't like out relationship anymore because it's all based on how she feels about everything; not about how WE feel or how I feel. Everything seems based on her feelings. I really don't use my common sense in this relationship, and even now, I don't care enough about our relationship, or do I? I don't know I'm so confused. And the story doesn't end here, but I don't want to get into anymore detail. Could you help me from here?
Mike- who lets his girlfriend have her way 24/7.
Did you use the vagina thing in front of her? This hoe is probably secretly filming you on her mobile while you have sex with a plastic vagina and then putting it on the net.
