"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Blackgame

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1:
list all the good things in your life, mom, dad, house, dog what ever just name them all. now any time you fill bad just say those things in your head


2:
list some events that reasure your thoughts of being attrative to women. like for exemple,when I was younger about six or seven these girls use to chase me all over then when they cought me they would hold me down and kiss me and make me finger them. back then this was pretty messed up, but now I see it as me being good with women from the start

visual plan:
pull out a peice of paper ask your self this question If I could be anything I wanted to be three years from now, what would my life look like and write it down


draw a man in the center of the paper. once you do this ask yourself another question "what qualitites, characteristic and skills will I need to fulfull my three year vision plan." mind map the answers as quickly as you can


now any time you are feeling down and out pull this page out and review it, this is your plan for your life, feel it believe it this is were your going to be in three years count on it
list all the good things in your life, mom, dad, house, dog what ever just name them all. now any time you fill bad just say those things in your head
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Blackgame
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list all the good things in your life, mom, dad, house, dog what ever just name them all. now any time you fill bad just say those things in your head
I could just imagine, you're sitting there about to approach a girl, and you're proclaiming to yourself "Mommy! Mittens! Fluffy! Racecar Pajamas!"
 
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