"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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positivity exercises

Blackgame

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list all the good things in your life, mom, dad, house, dog what ever just name them all. now any time you fill bad just say those things in your head


2:
list some events that reasure your thoughts of being attrative to women. like for exemple,when I was younger about six or seven these girls use to chase me all over then when they cought me they would hold me down and kiss me and make me finger them. back then this was pretty messed up, but now I see it as me being good with women from the start

visual plan:
pull out a peice of paper ask your self this question If I could be anything I wanted to be three years from now, what would my life look like and write it down


draw a man in the center of the paper. once you do this ask yourself another question "what qualitites, characteristic and skills will I need to fulfull my three year vision plan." mind map the answers as quickly as you can


now any time you are feeling down and out pull this page out and review it, this is your plan for your life, feel it believe it this is were your going to be in three years count on it
list all the good things in your life, mom, dad, house, dog what ever just name them all. now any time you fill bad just say those things in your head
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Blackgame
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list all the good things in your life, mom, dad, house, dog what ever just name them all. now any time you fill bad just say those things in your head
I could just imagine, you're sitting there about to approach a girl, and you're proclaiming to yourself "Mommy! Mittens! Fluffy! Racecar Pajamas!"
 
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