"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Positive teasing

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habdragon08

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I think positive teasing is much more effective than neg-hits.

What it is:
- Do not put a girl down, instead, make a joke that implies she is the most desirable person on the planet
- Obviously make it clear its a joke
- smile
- Do this to everyone, not just HBs


Examples:

Me: Whats your phone number?
Girl: Its xxx-xxx-xxxx
Me: Dang girl You got that down, I bet you give that off to ten guys a day!

Girl: I don't like being the life of a party.
Me: Well show off that smile and you won't have a choice!

Girl: Hold up I have to talk to my friend
Me: Your way too popular for me.

Why this is effective:
- It makes the girl feel good, laugh, and it makes her want more!
- You can do this to anyone, practice on anyone. Old young, man, woman, it has the same effect.
- When you do it to other people around you, they will feel good too, and this will make you in turn feel good and be happy.
- Girl will feel a need to "explain" this certain trait about herself.(IE, HAHAHAHA only 5 guys a day, not ten)



Field tested. I never neg-hit, this is much more effective. Neg hits seem contrived, and don't work on truly confident women I want.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would use it 20% of the time, I would still use it.. of course only in those times when I see the girl having a hard time, or feeling low about herself... other than that...

I tease them and make fun of them like there is no tomorrow, in a funny cute way.. NEVER ever.. in a demeaning way...

like if we are eating at a restaurant and she drops something and laughs

I might say:
."gosh that was embarrasing lol, now everyone is looking at us because of what you just did (covers my face so i dont see other people looking my way)" "you have to stop this, or we gonna get kicked out of here"

the type of teasing you are talking about does not create attraction,,, it creates affection my friend
guaranteed.
 
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I'm in the Mood

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habdragon08 said:
Girl: Hold up I have to talk to my friend
Me: Your way too popular for me.
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Haha that is classic!
Great line right there, better than a neg in every way possible.
 
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