"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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habdragon08

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I think positive teasing is much more effective than neg-hits.

What it is:
- Do not put a girl down, instead, make a joke that implies she is the most desirable person on the planet
- Obviously make it clear its a joke
- smile
- Do this to everyone, not just HBs


Examples:

Me: Whats your phone number?
Girl: Its xxx-xxx-xxxx
Me: Dang girl You got that down, I bet you give that off to ten guys a day!

Girl: I don't like being the life of a party.
Me: Well show off that smile and you won't have a choice!

Girl: Hold up I have to talk to my friend
Me: Your way too popular for me.

Why this is effective:
- It makes the girl feel good, laugh, and it makes her want more!
- You can do this to anyone, practice on anyone. Old young, man, woman, it has the same effect.
- When you do it to other people around you, they will feel good too, and this will make you in turn feel good and be happy.
- Girl will feel a need to "explain" this certain trait about herself.(IE, HAHAHAHA only 5 guys a day, not ten)



Field tested. I never neg-hit, this is much more effective. Neg hits seem contrived, and don't work on truly confident women I want.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would use it 20% of the time, I would still use it.. of course only in those times when I see the girl having a hard time, or feeling low about herself... other than that...

I tease them and make fun of them like there is no tomorrow, in a funny cute way.. NEVER ever.. in a demeaning way...

like if we are eating at a restaurant and she drops something and laughs

I might say:
."gosh that was embarrasing lol, now everyone is looking at us because of what you just did (covers my face so i dont see other people looking my way)" "you have to stop this, or we gonna get kicked out of here"

the type of teasing you are talking about does not create attraction,,, it creates affection my friend
guaranteed.
 
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I'm in the Mood

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habdragon08 said:
Girl: Hold up I have to talk to my friend
Me: Your way too popular for me.
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Haha that is classic!
Great line right there, better than a neg in every way possible.
 
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