"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Portsmouth, UK

Lawless

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15 April 2007 [email protected]

Hey,

Two RAFCs are looking for new wings to join us in our sarges.

We're from Portsmouth, but as well as locally, we sarge in:
Southampton;
Bournemouth;
Bristol;
Brighton;
Winchester;
etc.

I'm Lawless, 29, and my wing is Gonazlez84, 22.

We're not PUAs yet, but we're getting there. But we want to meet other wings to create more buzz, energy, ideas, support, etc.

We don't expect you to be in any way a super-PUA, but it helps if you have a modicum of social awareness!

Hit me back, and lets sarge soon to see how we all get on. Bring a friend, if you like. A pivot would be even better ;-)

Email me asap at [email protected] with details of age, sex (yes please), location, experience, rank, serial number, yada, yada.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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