porn

[runner83]

No matter how harmless it is, it does have its effects.

Install a filter and take a break from it as a trial.

If you can man the fvck up and control yourself and go out and get some real pvssy yourself, there's no better feeling.

Of having the self discipline to go and get what you want. Translates into other areas of life as well.

 

[search1ng]

Have to admit though, went 2 weeks no porn once and damn, felt like I was on fire. Just an incredible tension/static that translated really well in the gym and with personal relationships/studies.

Should do it again.

 

[vagrant]

Quit watching porn is easy. Quit masturbating is another story. I can masturbate using my imagination and when I'm done, I'm done. I won't need to be looking for porn movies.

Though I have to admit I'm addicted to seeing the MOST beautiful girls on the planet bent over or legs wide open getting fvcked!

Does that mean I'm addicted to porn? Gagh...well I'm not as addicted to it more than starbucks.

 

[Alle_Gory]

If you have that attitude with random "under 5's" (hah/eew) then regular sex with random "over 5's" would probably form the same apathetic attitude. So fcuk someone's personality rather than looks alone and you'll probably find sex more satisfying.

I agree completely but you need an average girl at minimum otherwise an ugly chick will ruin the experience.

 

[SgtSplacker]

LOL! Seriously? I'm only going to speak for myself here but I could jack off 5 times go out clubbing and still want to jump on every girl I see. Maybe its because I'm young but regular masturbation has never stopped me from being sexually aggressive.

In fact I've jacked off before every single date I've been on and never had trouble moving things forward.

When I was 22 I could also, it slows down as you get older bud. I forgot to add the age disclaimer.. lol

 

[Chamber36]

well it's 3 days now since I stopped watching porn. I also haven't masturbated.

I'm considering contacting an old plate.

I better have the DJ wisdom to guide my testosterone in the right direction.

I found this book about tantric sex and the next time I jerk off I'll be training my sex muscles. It'll be awesome if I could have a 1 hour orgasm. But anyway now my masturbation can be put to a good use.

 

[Alle_Gory]

I better have the DJ wisdom to guide my testosterone in the right direction.

It's mostly the dopamine response which is why abstinence is mostly in your head. Dopamine is one of the reward chemicals in the brain which makes you feel good.

I'm sure the extra testosterone boost helps as well. But it's only an extra 50% testosterone in your blood (read some studies, it's 50 and change).

 

[CuriousGirl]

:crackup:

I bet you a solid pound coin that 10/15 years down the line you'll share the same attitude and will be looking for personalities to fcuk when you're bored of bodies :yes:

 

[CuriousGirl]

I agree completely but you need an average girl at minimum otherwise an ugly chick will ruin the experience.

Yeah I know what you mean, the initial attraction has gotta come from somewhere. Although I've had guys and girls immediately become hotter before my eyes just by demonstrating a personality trait or something else that I've liked. I also think that when you've dated or slept with someone for near-enough personality alone then beautiful people who are also physically beautiful are just that much more damned beautiful!

 

[user43770]

I bet you a solid pound coin that 10/15 years down the line you'll share the same attitude and will be looking for personalities to fcuk when you're bored of bodies :yes:

You're a 20 year old female. I've asked you this before, but what do you know about being an adult male?

I don't fvck personalities; I fvck vaginas on fit women.

 

[Konada]

You're a 20 year old female. I've asked you this before, but what do you know about being an adult male?

I don't fvck personalities; I fvck vaginas on fit women.

http://m.youtube.com/index?desktop_uri=/&gl=SG#/watch?v=qqXi8WmQ_WM

This guy thinks like you too

 

[user43770]

I may have been a little bit crass, but my point still stands: sex is typically not about an emotional connection for men.

 

[user43770]

http://m.youtube.com/index?desktop_uri=/&gl=SG#/watch?v=qqXi8WmQ_WM

This guy thinks like you too

I see what you did there. For a second I was like, "damn, that guy does think like me."

 

[f283000]

It's ancient sex knowledge. Every time you ejaculate you lose your life force.

If you're going to be losing your life force DO IT WITH A WOMAN! Not to your hand by watching a ho on the computer monitor!

 

[Alle_Gory]

Yeah I know what you mean, the initial attraction has gotta come from somewhere. Although I've had guys and girls immediately become hotter before my eyes just by demonstrating a personality trait or something else that I've liked. I also think that when you've dated or slept with someone for near-enough personality alone then beautiful people who are also physically beautiful are just that much more damned beautiful!

I agree completely. Most attraction is from actions and behaviour but physical features count for some as well. People who are more physically appealing tend to be more comfortable in their own skin and behave in more attractive ways as well.

It really depends what you're looking for. Some people don't really care and just want to fvck.

 

[ArcBound]

I bet you a solid pound coin that 10/15 years down the line you'll share the same attitude and will be looking for personalities to fcuk when you're bored of bodies :yes:

The list of things to look for by importance:
Character
Personality
Looks

The easiest way to screen someone out:
Looks
Personality
Character

That's just how the world works, if you have a personality of gold and amazing character it's not going to mean anything until you first pass a person's attractiveness threshold.

 

[CuriousGirl]

You're a 20 year old female. I've asked you this before, but what do you know about being an adult male?

I don't fvck personalities; I fvck vaginas on fit women.

I've dated people both younger and older than you, I spend time with different groups of friends of 18-35 years old and I've got more than a handful siblings of 0-18 yrs (and their friends), I'm a student but I also have 2 jobs. So actually I have a lot of experience with all sorts of people. My dad's even pretty cool too. I don't see why you're so adamant my observations count for nothing.

That's fair enough, I wasn't condemning that.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I have to say I find it odd for a woman to be giving advice on these matters. You just dont understand the dynamics related to this topic. Definitely awesome to see a womans point of view in alot of things here except this. Testosterone shapes mens lives, our bodies, our wants and desires, our drives to achieve greatness... at the same time it can turn us into homebound masturbative geeks. When a man talks about compromised sexual desires all men know the other things associated with it that may not have been said, it's not about just wanting to bang a particular girl.

 

[L B]

I find porn in moderation one of the greatest invention for men. When I was single and got flaked on, I would watch it to release tension and not be pissed of at being flaked on. Then make my plan with the next date with another girl.

Now that I am in a serious relationship, I use it when my girl is not available. I am not tempted to cheat when I don't see her for 2 weeks due to traveling for work.

Mega overdosing of vitamin C can give you diarrhea, people still need it. I use porn to help me keep control of my temptations. I honestly need it or my life will be in ruins.

 

[HariPoter13]

I've dated people both younger and older than you, I spend time with different groups of friends of 18-35 years old and I've got more than a handful siblings of 0-18 yrs (and their friends), I'm a student but I also have 2 jobs. So actually I have a lot of experience with all sorts of people. My dad's even pretty cool too. I don't see why you're so adamant my observations count for nothing.

That's fair enough, I wasn't condemning that.

:crackup: