"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Porn Sex Vs Real Sex??
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
superchristx
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Well I'm not a regular poster so I probably have no credibility here, but I'd have to say no. Porn is usually about having the biggest **** and pounding nymphomaniacs as hard as you possibly can. Being good in bed involves coaxing and teasing, foreplay, sensitivity, things that are rarely seen in porno.
For learning purposes, you would be much better checking out educational vids for couples (Joy of sex and that type of thing) or softcore porn movies where there's a lot of foreplay and teasing involved.
SELF-MASTERY
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Although I'd get bored with it all the time.
Get your c0ck out
she sucks
you lick (if it's classy)
You stick in hole 1
You flip her over and stick it in
You stick it in hole 2
She sucks it (if it's not classy)
You spurt it on her face/tits/arse
You go home
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Women love come in their faces/mouthes/breasts/hair/etc.
Men all come like yard sprinklers.
Women 'enjoy' anal
Pool cleaning, plumbing and pizza delivery are dream jobs
Women love to wear high heels to bed
Overweight men can score with a perfect 10 and her girlfriend simultaneously
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I'm not against pornography per se, but it can definitely bend your expectations in an unrealistic way about sex. It's been my experience that the women who do live up to porn style sex also tend to be good at it for a reason,...if you catch my drift.