"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Porn addiction and marriage

Mustache

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Do you think that porn addiction would cause problems ?

Now i realize that I never told her that I liked porn

I had never cheated on her at that years

I used to work away from home
I only got home in the weekends

1-Isnt it better to watchig porn and masturb*te rather than
to have sex with someone else ?

2- Did she feel somehow that I was watching porn
and because she felt contempt she felt free to **** with that jerk ?

3- If I had told her, maybe she would not wonder what I´ve doing
in my home without her ?

Mustache
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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woods

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Are you fvcking kidding me????? Is your wife so clueless as to think you dont polish the bishop? If it was that bad of an addiction, she would have brought it to your attention. If she doesnt know, or say anything, its not that bad.
DONT ANALYZE THIS!!!!

All guys like porn.
All women know they do.
Im sure there are a few exceptions, but generally speaking.
 

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woods said:
Are you fvcking kidding me????? Is your wife so clueless as to think you dont polish the bishop? If it was that bad of an addiction, she would have brought it to your attention. If she doesnt know, or say anything, its not that bad.
DONT ANALYZE THIS!!!!

All guys like porn.
All women know they do.
Im sure there are a few exceptions, but generally speaking.
Ok Woods
My question was. If a guy works far away isnt it better for a wife
that he polishes the bishop rather than fck some b*tch out there ?
 

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Mustache said:
1-Isnt it better to watchig porn and masturb*te rather than
to have sex with someone else ?
Personally I find sex with a good looking girl alot more fun then whacking off to porn.

Mustache said:
2- Did she feel somehow that I was watching porn
and because she felt contempt she felt free to **** with that jerk ?
That's just stupid. You watching porn should not be a way for her to justify cheating. (If i understand you statement correctly.)

Mustache said:
3- If I had told her, maybe she would not wonder what I´ve doing
in my home without her ?
Clearly you didn't marry her because of her brains. To most girls it's a given that guys have, and watch porn.
 
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