"Popularity" and girls

[Elf2]

Hopefully you guys will understand what I'm trying to say:

Lets say there is a girl, (girl is younger) you just met, you have interest in her and you start talking in school and such. While in school, you are walking down the hall and talking to her at the same time, meanwhile as you are talking about 10 people say hi to you in a 5 minute period. And you say hi back cause you're "tight" with them.

So the relationship grows...you end up going to a school sporting event together. Such as a football, basketball or soccer game. The big group of those guys who "run" the school - you know the more "popular" and "cooler" guys...all say hi to you and welcome you into there little group and she sees this.

After school, you talk to like 10 diffrent people within 5 minutes - all friends - all "cool" people - see she this. You know people. People know you. You are social active and accepted.

Rather than being alone all the time, nobody knowing you, no one saying hi to you or including you in anything...



Do you guys see what I'm saying? If you barely know the girl and see shes you all involved with a bunch of people saying hi to them, all diffrent people - is that attractive? Meaning, will the girl see that in a positive light and find that "good"?

 

[Grimple]

Yeah buddy. It's called social proof.

I love walking down the halls with a girl and then get approached by a bunch of people. Especially girls.

 

[Elf2]

Social proof?

Please explain.

So this is good?

 

[Buick]

Oh yes social proof is very important. Would a girl rather go out with a loser or a cool guy?
Exactly.
Social proof is a way of proving value. Raise value=raise chances with girl. simple

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

Oh yes social proof is very important. Would a girl rather go out with a loser or a cool guy?
Exactly.
Social proof is a way of proving value. Raise value=raise chances with girl. simple

yep, in that way, its also a cycle

raise value=raise chances with a girl=girl comes over to talk to you=
raise value=raise chances with a girl=girl comes over to talk to you=
raise value=raise chances with a girl=girl comes over to talk to you=
raise value=raise chances with a girl=girl comes over to talk to you

use this power wisely

 

[LA_Chico]

Yeah bro, like at parties, all my bros are like "hey brah wassup", while im mackin on chicks. then that makes that chick wanna bang you!

 

[asdfghjkl]

it also works the other way too though, when im talking with an HB my friends wanna be socially proofed with me and her, so they say hi. Its really just one big cycle that everyone gains from.

 

[bambino]

As soon as the girl says, "wow, you know A LOT of people" then your doing a good job. Just keep it cool and not too ****y. Chill.

 

[Berlex]

wear abercrombie and fitch clothes, start wearing axe body spray, and pop your collar...that should get you noticed

 

[angelz]

how do you get the social proof?

 

[Distant Light]

Its basically showing your a high value guy. People tend want to be friends with high value people. The more friends you have the higher value you seem. When she sees girls around you she wants to know what you're about because everyone is reacting to you.

Say you walk into a new school by yourself with your books everyone will have there perception and you may probably be normal looking. Now say your the new kid walking with 4 models escorting you to class and then waiting to pick you up after class, you'll have the guys thinking your a pimp and the girls would want to get to know you because now they assume you are a high value guy.