"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Popping the question

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TheWayOfAllFlesh

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Back story.
2 weeks after my media course started this new girl joined up and was matey with my mate on the course. She spoke to me every now and then more than most of the other lads but stuck around with her male best mate more often than most. One day he wasn't in so she stuck around me and needless to say we hit it off:cool:. One weekend she said she was going up town and I said yeah im going to the pub we should meet up. On the night i sent her a text saying:
"awww not coming in to say hi :(
xaidanx"
we met up and she came with her besty and a few boys that were with them in the club. needless to say when i went up to her instantly and got a connection straight away:cool: ahh the look on their faces:cool:
anyway she payed for me all night and i had 3 makeout sessions with her that night
at school on monday it was well awkward between me n her an tuesday she was moody with everyone. a week later it was all good and we have a proper strong connection and all my mates are asking 'are you two gettin together. i think she well likes you.'
apparently theyve asked her and said if she was interested an she said 'i dont really wanna relationship but maybe if the right boy came along'

its gonna be saturday and im inviting her down to a gig at my local and was gonna get her a bit tipsy and bring up the subject...but how do i propose to her that we should go out?:confused:

tldr; how do i ask this girl out who i have a strong connection with
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJDamage

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Just go with the flow.

She doesn't want a relationship so don't come out and ask for it. Go out with her and show her a good time and just say some random sh1t like "hey you should come join me for a pint at (insert name here) and I will kick your butt in pool". The point is that you are essentially asking her out but not being direct about it but you are still going to do everything you would normally do on a date in order to raise her interest levels. Actions not words will define who you are and what you are.

To formally ask a girl out is relatively out-dated, just like it was kissing a woman on her hand upon meeting her.
 
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DJDamage said:
just like it was kissing a woman on her hand upon meeting her.
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Not if you're spanish it's not. The women eat that up when i play up my accent (which to be quite honest is non-existant) i've NEVER had a women not melt when i do that.
 
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