"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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POPPED THE VIRGIN

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So i made a thread a few weeks back upset about not being able to pop a virgin. Well being a virgin myself it was rather frustrating. She wanted me to break her hymen but i failed as i was being too gentle.

This time i took no excuses. We made out and then shes like ' i dont feel too turned on'. NO PHUCKS GIVEN. I proceeded. Took those sweet panties off. She wasnt too wet either. I told her i is phucking tonite lol. Lubed her up and shoved it in there. Screams proceeded. NO PHUCKS GIVEN. She cried. NO PHUCKS GIVEN. I came, raw, no condom. NO PHUCKS GIVEN. Lasted a good 5-7 minutes.

I pull out and i look down. No blood. Was kinda disappoint until suddenly blood streamed out. Sweetest feeling ever.She loled after. Said sex is chit. After a few hours, i finger her and then phuck again. I pull out and *** on her face.lol.

I had a lot of feelings for this girl. Now tho, im not too sure. I like her but tbh the frustration and fear of losing her have subsided. I was the first man in her. Done the most i could except for anal. The girl was hella religous before now she done alll the things in the devils textbook.

Sounds cold but Im glad the emotional burden is not so heavy anymore. Done what my body needed to.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Son, when you get older I hope you remember this time when your 14 year old daughter comes home in tears. Good luck to you.
 

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Son, when you get older I hope you remember this time when your 14 year old daughter comes home in tears. Good luck to you.
She wasnt 14. Also, she wanted her hymen broken. Was her choice. She let me. I didnt rape her.

If i ever had a daughter tho, she would prob cry when she id 1st popped regardless. Part of life. Whats your point.
 

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No point. Just an observation. Proceed in life.
 

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So you failed to bang her when she wanted so you decided to take revenge against the world by having sex with her while she wasnt that much in the mood nor wet making it painful?

Dont get me wrong I treat women badly and honestly I kinda like it mostly cause they bust my balls, but I find quit sad and unfair to treat a girl giving herself to you a way she cant to anyone later tht way.

Was that too much work to take more time till she got more aroused and wet considering how important such day is for a girl and she decided to share it with you?

Most of the guys here would give their left nut to be in such position.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So you failed to bang her when she wanted so you decided to take revenge against the world by having sex with her while she wasnt that much in the mood nor wet making it painful?

Dont get me wrong I treat women badly and honestly I kinda like it mostly cause they bust my balls, but I find quit sad and unfair to treat a girl giving herself to you a way she cant to anyone later tht way.

Was that too much work to take more time till she got more aroused and wet considering how important such day is for a girl and she decided to share it with you?

Most of the guys here would give their left nut to be in such position.
I think you got me wrong. She wasnt fully aroused but we booked a hotel. She knew what we were going to do. Was more or less ready.

When we first tried, she was in too much pain even when i went in gentle. She herself wanted to 'get over and done with' with her hymen. When she pushed me off the first time, later on a week later she said ' you were too chicken to 'rape' me' lol. Hence why i did what i did.
 

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I think you got me wrong. She wasnt fully aroused but we booked a hotel. She knew what we were going to do. Was more or less ready.

When we first tried, she was in too much pain even when i went in gentle. She herself wanted to 'get over and done with' with her hymen. When she pushed me off the first time, later on a week later she said ' you were too chicken to 'rape' me' lol. Hence why i did what i did.
My mistake so, I understood the fact wrong.
 

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I've taken three virginities before. In all cases the girl definitely wanted me to, but were scared of the pain they knew would come. You just have to take control, look her in the eye and tell her to let you do your job, yeah it'll hurt but once the pain is gone it'll feel good and that weight will be off her shoulders. They are already attracted to you or they wouldn't be in bed with you. Now you've just gotta give them the comfort of knowing you aren't just in it for yourself, calm them down for a second and do your job.
 

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@Armourhead Nailed it. Same here, except it was two virgins for me (so far). I did exactly that, and after both times, they said something along the lines of "I wasn't even as scared as I thought I'd be. You just did it and it hurt but felt so good after." All of this while their legs were shaking and they were walking like ducks.

Um, also, by the way, did you cvm inside of her man? Ouch. You may be visiting babynames.com soon. NEVER do that. I know it's really tempting, but the ten seconds of pleasure is not worth the stress or possible repercussions. When she's late and you're on your bed madly biting your fingernails, you tell yourself "I'm never doing that again! Please lord, abort this baby naturally before it's ever conceived!" Then when she starts you're like "Ah, yah man, who gives a fvccckkkk". Stay with the former mindset.
true. But I didn't think once would be that likely to make her conceive plus she just got off a period.
 

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true. But I didn't think once would be that likely to make her conceive plus she just got off a period.
Hey im going to be a dad because i thought the same thing, and this girl had birth control. So... Sorry to hear you did this. Good luck.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"you were too chicken to rape me" LOL... I am continually shocked at how many women like rough sex, bondage, ect. Heck I knew one who had RAPE FANTASY. I mean, why would 50 Shades have ever been popular if not for woman wanting to be dominated by some alpha male. Seriously, I am starting to think that the majority of women are more insane than we give them credit for. But man... Use a condom... If she has a baby then...
 

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i read that numerous women have rape fantasies because they crave having desires filled without having to take responsibility for it in society's eyes, i.e. a beneficial rape.
 
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true. But I didn't think once would be that likely to make her conceive plus she just got off a period.
Good luck with what you got coming ... When you're in a circle with her family and getting ate alive by her pops.. and then standing in a hospital room waiting 8-12 hours staring at child birth happening live.. You'll have alot of think about ...

then you can think about "was it worth it?" when you realize now you got a whole lot of priorities on your hand...

and don't think this chick didn't run to her mom first thing after you guys had sex and let her know what happened and ask if everything is normal.. she's probably just as scared as YOU SHOULD BE right now lol.
 

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Sigh. Read what Live Your Dream said. Read it again. You have just played Russsian Roulette with your future and hers. Hope it works out for you.

Where is the facepalm emoticon?
 

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Shake my damn head, dude. For 5 minutes of feeling good, for the FIRST TIME IN YOUR LIFE, you may have gotten her pregnant.

Listen, we're all kind of really ragging on you here, and if I had to be, no she will not be pregnant. However I'm not a betting man, and there's always a chance. Like someone said up before this, he got his girl pregnant and she was supposedly on BC. Your girl was a virgin and was not.

I'm really pulling for you right now man. You may think other kids at school will give you props or something for knocking her up at first so "it doesn't really matter", but she will be an outcast and YOU will be responsible for her and that child.

Plan B is $50. I bought a pill today oddly enough, just so I have it. I never use condoms during sex (and I've had my fair share) with not even a pregnancy scare. How? Pull the hell out, WAY ahead of time. And if you jerked off that day, make sure to piss before sex. Or if you're going for round two, piss before hand. Peeing kills any leftover sperm in the urethra. Otherwise you never know, one could make it. I advise never doing round two unprotected.
Yea i fd up. She is going to take the pill today. Its been more than 40 hours now but it should be okay.

I spoke to her and altho she seems stressed i cant help but feel like she almost wants to be pregnant.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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@KingofPuss Great idea... Having some PlanB for spare... Heck I broke one of the rubbers once, the nearby pharmacy did not have it (this was in the middle of bumble**** Virginia), and I had to drive like 40 miles to get plan B... My god. But yeah, I am going to visit the local pharmacy and do that right now in fact.
 

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It was great to hear the description of the female sex drive and sexuality thru the females side. It was also interesting to hear about the deception of the last guy and how it was as crushing as it would be for a male.
 

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It feels really vulnerable and uncomfortable to be so detailed and personal even despite the anonymity here. It felt important if I was going to offer a truly heartfelt and meaningful apology, that it was important to share my own similar experience. I went for it and did. I am glad to hear my sharing was helpful to someone else, in some way as well.

You sound like a woman who is going to desire more a man who is a little more sensitive and considerate of you, and not a 110% all out Alpha.
 

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Im ****in disgusted. You men speak of being alpha? An alpha is a leader. A captain with a compass. The very essence of beta behavior is bending a branch to seize its low hanging fruit. You conquested only the regret of a young human. Your good name is only the wedge she will remember that facilitated her dividing her heart, brain, emotions and body. Shameful that you are encouraged by men who know better, or at least sounded like they might.

You are no victor. (at least in the juvenile way in which you ALL speak of this) You are a pillager of easy street. A wolf and a thief. Her hyman being only the barrier of her ever being the dime, one in a million, good girls which we all seek.

You pontificating hypocrites b!tch and moan about how all girls are liars and slvts. How you are so surprised at their fifthly desires. You claim to enjoy it? You cry when they give you empty words and avvenge themselves by fvcking us over.

Well sirs, you see now, why you are sometimes the victim of that vengeance. This is where they are turned loose. Forever chasing the power and regret of being literally F^cked over by some scell who would take to the internet for congratulations or mediation of his no F^cks given attitude.

You are a simpleton OP. An unbaked version of what a man could have been. (if how you treated this situation is true) You who encourage are a pit of vipers.

Not because of his deed. NO NO NO. I have no problem with taking what is offered, or sharing the deepest of intimacy with a girl who splayed herself before a man to make her and take her. No, I have no problem at all with that.

What makes me sick is the double standard complaining that are no good women left, by those who are the apex of the problem. Easy road, immature, impatient, balless boys, who dispense advice as parrots, and call themselves men because they memorized a few lines.

The next time you are cheated on, lied to, flaked on, or effort stomped... remember "You gave no f^cks"

You taught them the vitriol in which you bathe.

P6ssys. No men to be found.

I hope your vomit tastes bitter while you lap it up for years to come.

For the record and apart from my disgust. I say this, not according to the act! But according to the romper room way in which it was discussed.

Shameful.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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