"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bonez

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Pitch a tent?

hehe thats what I was doing the last time I woke up from a night of binge drinking. I was outside putting up a tent. It turned into a pretty good date.


Better than a damned dinner I'll tell you that.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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What distinguishes hanging with a friend and an actual DATE?
And don't say "Getting some"...that's too easy.
Well a date would be taking a girl you just met out for a good time. To get to know each other and hopefully advance to getting some. It is that easy.

Doing one of those things with a friend. Would to just go do something together.
 
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