"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pop-quiz, hotshots...

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bonez

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Pitch a tent?

hehe thats what I was doing the last time I woke up from a night of binge drinking. I was outside putting up a tent. It turned into a pretty good date.


Better than a damned dinner I'll tell you that.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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What distinguishes hanging with a friend and an actual DATE?
And don't say "Getting some"...that's too easy.
Well a date would be taking a girl you just met out for a good time. To get to know each other and hopefully advance to getting some. It is that easy.

Doing one of those things with a friend. Would to just go do something together.
 
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