"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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POON's bootcamp(starts today, register now you pvssies))

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Don Juan
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alright, this is for the guys who have tried and failed before... week 1 starts today i don't have the time to organize a formal one that would start a week or two from today, i need this sh!t right fvcking now!!! anyways if you want to sign up leave your name, complete the exercises, then post your FR here at the end of the week... ohh, and i'm only taking 10 guys... off i go to do week 1 exercises!

heres the bootcamp: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don Juan
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all right fvck it anyone can join lets go guys i know theres some of you out there who NEED this
 

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Hey Poon I was planning on starting the bootcamp today so this works out really good! I think it's a good idea to bypass all the formal BS and just get this thing rolling. I never made it past week 2 before and I haven't done this in awhile but I'm more motivated than I ever have been. Good luck man, let's do this!
 

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well right on, i'll post whats happened for me to date: Today i started college courses for the summer, i didnt talk as much as i would have like to especially to the HB's but none the less i still got some hi's and a few convo's in there... tomorrow i will kick myself in the ass and continue to push outside the comfort zone...

Hi's: 9
Convo's:3
#'s pulled: ZERO
 
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