Pook's Relevation, my life, and Political Correctness

[dante]

Great rant.

 

[Technical1]

Kontroller and Bat, thank you both for the tips. I am going to buy that book and etch Pook's every word into my brain forever.

I feel like I am about to come alive in a way that will make my past life look like a drab gray nothing, though it was joyous before, the sh1t on this board is HUGE. After I save myself, I'm saving all my guy friends. But, take it slow, take it slow. God I am so excited about everything!

Who knows, maybe we'll actually get the p*ssy we want and then get to form stable families with women we love! We might be saved the misery of this ****ing ***** life, even though it had its good sides! I'd do anythign to get out of this ****ing box they put me in and be my old self again! I am so grateful to Pook I have to restrain myself from saying something stupid.

 

[DJVladdy]

Wow dude your words are strong. Let me ask you this, what do so-called "scum" know that you did not know? Or what did they have that you don't have? And how did they obtain this extra something?

 

[Technical1]

Wow dude your words are strong. Let me ask you this, what do so-called "scum" know that you did not know? Or what did they have that you don't have? And how did they obtain this extra something?

I actually wasn't exaggerating when I used the word Hobos and homeless people. After my Oneitis I tried to sleep with two sluts. I figured, they are sluts, why cant I sleep with them? I mean, I dont WANT to be with a slut, but if I cant win a slut, who can I can get to sleep with me? So I tried.

I failed. Later I found out that a jobless drifter had ****ed both of these girls, a guy who introduced himself under different names and sold drugs. He had sex with these women that wouldnt have sex with me. This was confirmed by independent sources.

I believe this man could do this one thing that it takes to get girls, if I understand Pook correctly. It is very, very, psychological. Not a technique, but a way of being, if I understand correctly.

My understanding of it comes to this:

1) Have a machine.
A set list of rules you never break, which you know without thinking. No girl gets off the machine treatment in the first month. This includes the all important approach.

Examples: 1) Dont answer sh!t test questions, 2) dont call till 4 days after you get the number, 3) Dont talk about your problems, 4) create attraction before the approach, i.e. let her notice you. 5) Approach first with eye contact.

2) Zen-like Overcoming of Desire with Perspective.
Choose a girl you know you want to bang, but then forget that you want to bang her. Dont think about her body, dont think about sex with her, dont think about how much you like her. Just go into her presence with the knowledge that you WOULD theoretically like to have her. Dont go in wanting her. The desire ruins it.

3) ????? Become carefree and spontaneous ??????
This is the real magical part, which I dont quite understand. Can you become carefree and spontaneous? Pook advises us to remember that the whole process is about OUR HAVING FUN. We do it because we like it.
This is why I fail with women, because I cant create the fun, I cant be spontaneous enough. It is because I think too much and worry, AND because I have the wrong perspective about women and am indoctrinated. I think time will clear that up. This also entails some changing the way you think about yourself and enjoy yourself, IMO. This is the biggest thing I have to work on.

Those are the three components to winning most of the time, if I understand correctly.

I am attacking the 3rd point, which is the only real sticking point for me now, with a two-pronged approach:

1) Pook's critique of feminism and Romanticism is freeing me from my previous belief that women were 'purer' than us, or better than us, or more deserving. It is making me see that, indeed, things may be the other way around. This will take weeks and months to absorb and represents a fundamental change in my thinking.

2) Comfort with approaching and being in social situations comes with experience. The ability to be carefree increases with comfortableness. So that is why doing the bootcamp is a good idea.

Those are the key elements of the art, as I understand it.

 

[Evolution]

1) Pook's critique of feminism and Romanticism is freeing me from my previous belief that women were 'purer' than us, or better than us, or more deserving. It is making me see that, indeed, things may be the other way around. This will take weeks and months to absorb and represents a fundamental change in my thinking.

Not too long ago, I was really upset with feminists because of this. However, while though I do not agree with their beliefs.

There is a line that I do not cross. And that is that there is no "purer" gender. Human beings were born to procreate, and have sex. As far as I'm concerned there is nothing "dirty" about sex.

 

[Obsidian]

I actually ordered The Manipulated Man a few days ago off Amazon, but it hasn't shown up yet. And yeah, I've noticed that my increased level of sexism (thanks to reading Pook's blog) has helped me with women.

 

[speakeasy]

Typically, the Alpha male is aggressive in youth, attains a position in the dominance hierarchy, and then is comfortable in the knowledge of his strength and superior position, so becomes calm.

Exactly. Think of your Mafioso godfather, you can't get more Alpha than that. They are cool and collected. It's the footsoldiers trying to fight their way to the top that are the aggressive ones.

 

[LostAndConfused]

In a scene from Scarface-Tony Montanna on the dance floor with his bosses wife...He basically really pisses off this woman and she basically tells him to fvck off. Later Tony tells his right hand man manni, "I think she likes me". Of course Tony gets her later on.
I told my sister that this is how women work.
It doesnt matter what you say to them as long as you get an emotional reaction. Women do not respont to logic. If you hit their buttons, even if you get them steaming mad, your going in the right direction. As long as you can get an emotional reaction you can get her panties off.
Why do you tink women always complain about men?
Because the men they fvck get them mad as hell.

Its true. Some girls I've totally insulted by accident or said things that make them so angry that they don't want to talk to me have wanted me later.

 

[The Bat]

Technical,

I think that jobless guy who scored the two girls you couldn't had one thing going about him that you, I'm assuming, you didn't: he was a badboy.

Think about it. You said he was dealing drugs, had no job, and was probably broke. Girls, especially sluts, find these type of personality traits very attractive. Absurd, isn't it?

So, how do you deal with that? Obviously, don't go the route he did. In Pook's "Be a man!", he explicitly mentions the third option other than the nice guy and the badboy. You might as well call this third option a hybrid of the two: a man. I'm sure you've read that post but might as well give it another read so you know what I'm referring to.

Being spontaneous, I think the best thing to accomplish this is to have fun with yourself first. Can you make yourself laugh? If so, most of the time, you'll be able to make others around you laugh. Being creative helps too. Being able to see the, as the experts call it, "funny" behind the boring, mind-numbing, repetitive, and tedious is a talent.

And plus, you can't take anything personally when you are out having fun. If somebody doesn't laugh or is having fun, then it's their damn fault. You just keep on jogging to that finish line.

 

[Technical1]

Being spontaneous, I think the best thing to accomplish this is to have fun with yourself first. Can you make yourself laugh? If so, most of the time, you'll be able to make others around you laugh. Being creative helps too. Being able to see the, as the experts call it, "funny" behind the boring, mind-numbing, repetitive, and tedious is a talent.

And plus, you can't take anything personally when you are out having fun. If somebody doesn't laugh or is having fun, then it's their damn fault. You just keep on jogging to that finish line.

Great advice, this is what I was thinking of as well, but you articulated it better. Now I have the knowledge, I just have to implement it, live it. It will take a while.