"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lepanto said:
getting no girl was the worst thing that could happen to you in this world.
Unless you consider the ridiculous extremes (living on a street, affliction due to a disease or an injury, not having enough money to buy clothes & food, etc.) not getting any girl IS the worst thing that could happen to a regular man.

Not only you'd feel incomplete, but it'd be the source of depression, self-disrespect and of the lack of confidence.
All of which influence your whole life.


there are things much, much worse than being a virgin.
Serious illness, extreme poverty, going to war or being hit by a car?


Living in denial is no good as it will hurt you later.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know pook is just a man, and i really want to see anyone who actually considers him more. The reason he is always mentioned on this forum is because he was inspirational, he didn't encourage the usual crap like leaving before the woman wakes up, getting women drunk to fvck. He developed himself and then helped develop others to a point where this forum would sustain itself...you know looking at my life before and after i read his book, im glad i did because now i focus on myself and not women(matter of fact i don't even want to date right now because of it) but now i also see women as what they are, and while they aren't inherantly bad or malevolent; they are definately out for themselves. The book of Pook didnt teach me anything, it showed me everything, wich kind of sucks.
 

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sodbuster said:
After he said all he had to say, he quit[something I wish women would learn]
Lmfao
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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da dynamically said:
Assuming that Pook was a smart man, if he really did discover the TRUTH about westernized women, he probably moved to Asia.
haha dude that's hilarious! He was a very smart man by just what I read of his writings.
 

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cool dude said:
haha dude that's hilarious! He was a very smart man by just what I read of his writings.
Yes agreed, i found his blog but his last posting on there was in 2008, definately smart.

After reading everything and developing a greater sense of why women are the way they are, i can't blame him if he did move to asia.
 

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Pook is maxing out his potential in the hardware department of Sears. If he had been wise he would have just told you to learn an East European language. All of Western Europe knows this these days. Sadly, American males are the most confused on earth.

Yes, 98% of the males on earth would prefer a blue-eyed beauty over any Oriental girl. I say Oriental because Asians include many Russians, Middle Easterners, and even Indians.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcozYuPTnBU&feature=related
Eh, if Pook had wisdom he would have written this song and moved to a place like Tallinn. He would age poorly and the girls would all stay the same age.

So funny how the poor and young of America are so clueless. Why do such videos get so many views and comments? Yet, your pickup scam videos get the same comments from horny teenage boys and guys who are THISclose to joining the army.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Pook is maxing out his potential in the hardware department of Sears. If he had been wise he would have just told you to learn an East European language. All of Western Europe knows this these days. Sadly, American males are the most confused on earth.

Yes, 98% of the males on earth would prefer a blue-eyed beauty over any Oriental girl. I say Oriental because Asians include many Russians, Middle Easterners, and even Indians.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcozYuPTnBU&feature=related
Eh, if Pook had wisdom he would have written this song and moved to a place like Tallinn. He would age poorly and the girls would all stay the same age.

So funny how the poor and young of America are so clueless. Why do such videos get so many views and comments? Yet, your pickup scam videos get the same comments from horny teenage boys and guys who are THISclose to joining the army.

And if you got laid with these supposed "hawt" Eastern European women, you wouldn't be posting on sosuave trying to post your anti-American agenda while co-signing the king of lames (Winston Wu)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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