Pook or DarkDream???

[slipstreamer83]

Hi guys, I just read Pook´s "The secret of the Jerk" and DarkDream´s "How to eliminate desire", both posts made in the DJ Bible.

I have to say I am stunned by Pook´s post, it is simply awesome. Just by reading it, I knew what he meant; just be aware that you have testosterone, and that you have to quench it by fvcking her, nothing else matters; no techniques or trying to be a person you are not.

However, I see a conflict with DarkDream´s post. He says that you that you have to remove desire because if you don´t you will screw it up. I really feel that Pook´s theory is very powerful, and that chicks like it when you are aware of your sexuality. So how does that match with having no desire?

Maybe being aware of your testosterone sets up your internal frame, and eliminating desire sets up the actual interaction frame? I don´t know, please guys share your opinions.

 

[Lifeforce]

What do YOU feel? I can def. say that I feel horny when I talk to girls and I don't hide it but show it in my manner with her. Being a DJ is not about surpressing your feelings, it is about embracing them and become what you truly are! At least where I come from.

I know one thing, CHICKS ARE REALLY HORNY! Yes, they are, all the time, and they like it when they make people feel horny too. They like that a guy want to **** them AS LONG AS THEY FIND THE GUY ATTRACTIVE! Do you like when a girl you find attractive want to **** you? Of course you do. This is nature. Just embrace it.

You don't have to live your life by the bible, that is what fanatics are for. All the info in the bible is not some computer program that wont work if not the "{" perimeter is on the right side of the "#".

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Lifeforce
What do YOU feel? I can def. say that I feel horny when I talk to girls and I don't hide it but show it in my manner with her. Being a DJ is not about surpressing your feelings, it is about embracing them and become what you truly are! At least where I come from.

I know one thing, CHICKS ARE REALLY HORNY! Yes, they are, all the time, and they like it when they make people feel horny too. They like that a guy want to **** them AS LONG AS THEY FIND THE GUY ATTRACTIVE! Do you like when a girl you find attractive want to **** you? Of course you do. This is nature. Just embrace it.

You don't have to live your life by the bible, that is what fanatics are for. All the info in the bible is not some computer program that wont work if not the "{" perimeter is on the right side of the "#".

Don't forget those missing semicolons.

Really, though, think of your desire as a wild stallion. You don't want to break it to the point where it's timid and docile, but you don't want to let it throw you off and kick the **** out of you either. Harness the energy.

 

[Grey Fox]

Desire without control is like a kite without a string. The wind will carry it high for awhile but without guidance it will come falling back to earth once the wind is taken out of its sails.

An AFC is a stringless kite, his mind goes wild with the possibilities and desires of companionship with a woman. He is so overzealous that though he may take chances, get a woman's attention. Without reason, without the ability to step back and evaluate himself, his emotions, his reason. He will fail to realize the dynamic shifts that come with dating and relationships and will soon the lose any chance with any woman he meets. He will lose his wind, and fall back to earth, hard. Learn to master your desire and you will learn to ride the winds, so to speak.

-Grey Fox

 

[slipstreamer83]

Originally posted by Grey Fox
Desire without control is like a kite without a string. The wind will carry it high for awhile but without guidance it will come falling back to earth once the wind is taken out of its sails.

An AFC is a stringless kite, his mind goes wild with the possibilities and desires of companionship with a woman. He is so overzealous that though he may take chances, get a woman's attention. Without reason, without the ability to step back and evaluate himself, his emotions, his reason. He will fail to realize the dynamic shifts that come with dating and relationships and will soon the lose any chance with any woman he meets. He will lose his wind, and fall back to earth, hard. Learn to master your desire and you will learn to ride the winds, so to speak.

-Grey Fox

Agreed, but the problem of the AFC is that he thinks about so many great things to do with the woman, but he doesn´t have the nerve to walk up to one.

With Pook´s theory, you don´t think. You just feel the urge to fvck that great girl you´re just seeing, so you need to unleash your instincts when you walk up to a woman... not because you want to get a woman, but because you have to quench a drive. There is quite a big difference between both targets.

However, when I go out and I see the guys touching the girls everywhere, without permission and out of the blue while dancing, and the girls literally freak out. Obviously, these guys know very well their instinct and want to quench it, but they are expressing it too strongly at the beggining. So you need to have that drive, but you have to know how to use it. Maybe an initial eye contact and smile can be very sexy, but not as strong as physically embracing the girl right away.

 

[Grey Fox]

You do have to build rapport, you can't immediately just go up to a girl and smile and then take her to the backseat of a car. An air of familiarity has to arise, then she will become comfortable towards your advances, even expect that you should make some kind of an advance. That advance doesn't mean you grab whatever you want. There is an art to it, you must seemingly cross this line between potential friend and potential lover, at the same time never appearing to cross is some dramatic way. Instead it should seem to her that the line is in fact being pushed back a little bit each time. You create the excitement of breaking that barrier by giving signals and the way you look at her and talk to her and even use kino. Then you pull back and treat her with not a cold shoulder but indifference, friendly but indifferent.
Keep doing this and her interest is bound to rise out of sheer human nature and watch as she makes her own efforts to cross this supposed line. The reason why you never cross the line completely is that instead of crossing it, you want to make what happens next so comfortable that the line simply dissappears and its no longer a game, no more shields, no more tests, simply fresh ground for a relationship long or short.

-Grey Fox