"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pook is still writing about Don Juanism!

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Pook has been re-discovered. He has his own blog site and his second post (posted May 2007) on the front page is DJ related.

He's like the Elvis of DJism so this may be why he hasn't been posting on this site ..got to much e-mail and wanted to duck out gracefully.

His post appears below off the blog site. I chose not to post his blog address for privacy reasons. If he wanted to be commercial, he'd probably still be posting on here. Anyway, here is his recent posting:

Enjoy!


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The first is that of the Don Juan. You thought you were the Cool Guy with your Nice Guy techniques or speed seduction strategies. When you heard, "Be a man!" you thought, "What! I have a penis, do I not? Doesn't that automatically make me a man?" No, it doesn't. And when that realization sunk in, you began to see the root of all the troubles you have had with not just women but with life as well. You began to see that most males were wimps who bent over for groupthink and refused to stand straight with their own conviction. Real men were rare.

You resisted. You fought at the truth. But you realized that Nature did have her own laws and that your fate was to become a man (for you were not one).

But there is a flip side to the Don Juan. It is a second journey that must be taken.

While real men are rare, it should be no surprise that real women are just as rare. What! You protest this? Of course. Just as you fought the truth that real men were rare (and you weren't one of them), so do you fight the truth that real women are rare in the West (and you haven't been dating them).

Just as your eyes began to pinpoint the real men from the wimps, now your eyes will begin to see the real women from the matriarchs (including both feminists and 'I'm a strong woman' "traditional" gal). Just because a female has a vagina doesn't mean she is a woman (just as a male having a penis doesn't mean he is a man).

Just as real men despise wimpy males, real women despise the matriarchs. Know Pook's GOLDEN RULE to evaluating a woman: You can judge a woman by how she treats those who will do nothing for her.

I know it is hard. It is lonely at the top. The only advantage to mediocrity is that they are in plenty of company. The talented, the original, the movers, are very few and alone. But since real ladies are just as rare, they are just as lonely and disgusted at the mediocrity that surrounds them.

When you found out how rare real men were, the world changed before your eyes. But once you know how rare real women are, the world will again change before your eyes.

"But I don't like this new world, Pook! Bring back the old one! A world with real ladies rare is scary to me! I prefer the world where a female was considered a woman just because she had a vagina."

Oh, you terrified mediocrity! Are you a Don Juan because of your narcissism? Those who want a life based on true-ness, not killing time by playing ego-stroking games, will not see the first journey (the Path to Don Juan) as a pleasure filled narcissism soaked walk to I-Am-Demi-God-To-All. They will see the steps as liberating but as growing pains. It is PAINFUL at first to stop being a wimp, but it is much more liberating. The narcissist filled Juans see the Second Journey as hellish and even evil (as the wimps do the first journey). Why? It is because it cuts away one's narcissism. You prefer to live in an imaginary world where you are a demi-god rather than the real world where things may not be as you want.

What does the Nice Guy...
the Speed Seducer...
the feminist...
the "strong woman" matriarch...
...all have in common? They are narcissist. The humble man is invincible to these delusions. The fool tries to effect other people's egos (by tearing down or by creating envy) while the sage tries to keep his own ego in check.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It is his Second Coming! He will soon return to destroy the remnants of feminism and other evildoers once and for all!
 

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He has alot of other good recent posts on his blog from the last two months about his path to being a DJ, women and men today in Western society, the male sexual state etc.

It's good reading no doubt.
 

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Obsidian said:
It is his Second Coming! He will soon return to destroy the remnants of feminism and other evildoers once and for all!
EXCELSIOR, true believers!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's good to see Pook is still around! :up:
 

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This is pook's mill right? If so, a lot of people here already know about the site. There was a thread about it a while ago.
 

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Yep, just had to find it again. There have been some recent updates there.
 

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tmpgstx said:
Yep, just had to find it again. There have been some recent updates there.
It's a good site. I like his more non-serious posts too. Like when he talks about video games or posts you-tube videos. I can't wait to see his website he's planning.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It is good, but you can tell Pook has become more philisophical about sexual dynamics. Going through some of his posts, he explains how the West is getting ruined by Feminism (or the Feminist movement). I have to agree and think more role reversals are occuring causing frustrations, and well ..rampid cheating. Women are having their cake and eating too (now more than ever). They can have the AFC at home, and be taking it doggy style from the Alpha every now and then. She gets the best of both worlds. Long term stability coupled with deeper sexual satisfaction.
 

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