KontrollerX said:
"Oh for Christs sake. Tom Leykis again? Jesus man are you like a groupie of his or something? Im starting to think that you may just be Uncle Tom himself."
Oh for Christ's sakes. Pook defending again? Jesus man are you like a groupie of his or something? I'm starting to think that you may be the messiah Pook himself!
"Pooks stuff helps put things into perspective. There are a lot of guys out there who offer bits and pieces that you can use. The best thing to do is to take the advice of many and use the bits that you believe will aid you best. No one man has all the answers."
Tom's stuff helps put things into perspective for weak males. There are a lot of guys out there who offer bits and pieces of advice that you can use. The best thing to do is to take the advice of many and use the bits that you believe will aid you best.
No one man has all the answers and I've never said Tom Leykis did but what he is that is valueable is a great resource to help young dumb stupid guys toughen up and become men.
His information unlike Pook's is not loaded with pie in the sky optimism and sugary loads of overwhelmingly unrealistic positivity that could give a diabetic a diabetic stroke oh no.
Tom Leykis's show is straight no nonsense realism.
Its the opposite of Pook in that it is complete real talk.
Leykis is cynical at best. Pook is trying to inspire people whereas Leykis is trying to knock some sense in them. I dont believe that one approach is better then the other I just believe that some approaches suit certain people more then others.
They both push for change, the difference is that Leykis does it from a point of resentment. Pook does it from a point of self realisation. People are going to respond differently to each approach.
There is no reason why a person could not benefit from both!
Pook's stuff is nice and great for beginner's as Metaphysical has said but the thing is you move on after reading enough of Pook to better material or at least you probably should.
Thats the difference between Pook's stuff and Tom Leykis.
Once you hear Leykis you really don't need to move onto any other guru or yearn to do so as he's simply the best at what he does and the proof is in pretty much the entire seduction community copping advice he was dishing out while they were children or AFC's wondering why chicks always took advantage of them or didn't give them the time of day.
Again, making Leykis the be all and end all. Maybe Leykis message is one that a lot of people cant agree with? The knob has been divorced 4 times. No wonder he is anti marriage. Not everyone wants to **** and chuck women until the day they die.
Pooks stuff is different and I dont understand why you have this need to draw a comparison. Pook was pushing personal development more then anything else. Leykis is handing out advice. Is the advice he offers poor? Not at all. The difference is that if people where in the right frame initially they would not be there in the first place.
The bottom line here is that someone took something out of Pooks contributions and felt a sense of improvement because of it. That is a good thing regardless of who the message came from. Everything else is irrelevant.
Moving on though the main reason I post about Leykis so much is not so idiots can make comments that I'm a Leykis groupie its because I want the weak discussion forum young AFC's to see as well as the lurkers where they can get the best possible advice that is a good compliment to go along with all the advice on this site of how to have a successful life.
In short I want this site to get away from Pook's teaching and go more towards Tom's and I think we have been making that shift thanks to my and other's efforts.
I think Pook's stuff is well enough but I'm tired of the guy being worshipped for advice he didn't always come up with himself and even the stuff he did come up with as Metaphysical already stated is incredibly outdated.
Plus the guy abandoned the site and all the sycophants still worship him despite that which disgusts me.
No loyalty to the people= the people should move onto other heroes to worship if that is what they need.
And even though I'd prefer the hero to be Leykis it doesn't even have to be him.
David D or Mystery works just as well or even Interceptor or VU
Dude, its an online forum. Not a way of life. How the hell you can you have an emotional attachment this deep? You feel betrayed? Is this whole thing about trying to get back at a member that has moved on?
Grow up man. For all the advice Leykis has given you on how to be a man it seems as if basic character is something he rarely touches. Are you that petty?
"Tom is a sage but he is flawed too. He tends to display a lot of anger and resentment towards woman."
Actually he's not flawed.
He's in the business of teaching guy's how to get laid.
If you listen to his show and think wow this guy gives terrible relationship advice guess what?
He's not trying to teach guys how to have successful relationships!
Many of the people who call in and many of the people who criticize him on this board are sadly too dense to get that fact that he regularly has to repeat due to all the density out there.
Thats because he really is not in a position to hand out relationship advice. He has been divorced 4 times. Maybe not everyone wants pickup advice? Maybe their problem is not a lack of sex its a lack of real value out of the time they spend with women?
Which makes me wonder just how well this guy has qualified women in the past if he has managed to go through 4 of them. No wonder he is such a public figure. Needs to make a fortune to cover all the weddings and divorces he has been through.
The promotional work you are doing for him needs to be saved for the right time and the right threads. The bottom line is that someone feels they are making progress only for you to knock that based on the fact that
YOU dont feel the self same message has anymore value to YOU.
Ill take Pook over Leykis thanks. The sugar coated optimistic positive call for self improvement sounds like a much better concept then the cynical, practical views of a jaded man who has been divorced four times. Not everyone is looking to **** and chuck everything that looks good in a skirt.