"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ponder this.

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Say for example, that no woman on earth had a gina, or could engage in any kind of sex with you (ie Bill Clinton sex). Under those circumstances, would you enter into any kind of a relationship with a female? Would there be any point? I suppose maybe if she had money.

Let's reverse the roles and ask the same question. Sure women would want a relationship with you as either a provider, a provider with alot of money or simply a guy to take care of them.

My point is that I think most men would not.

Herein lies the power and perceived worth of the gina.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Men go for looks, Women go for personality.

Sex is a part of Human Nature, without it we cannot create life. So, if there was no vagina there would be no need for the penis. Sex would not matter...
 

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5string said:
Say for example, that no woman on earth had a gina, or could engage in any kind of sex with you (ie Bill Clinton sex). Under those circumstances, would you enter into any kind of a relationship with a female? Would there be any point? I suppose maybe if she had money.

Let's reverse the roles and ask the same question. Sure women would want a relationship with you as either a provider, a provider with alot of money or simply a guy to take care of them.

My point is that I think most men would not.

Herein lies the power and perceived worth of the gina.
So you're saying you'd bang dudes instead?




Sorry....you set me up for that joke. Had to take it.
 

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For all the talk about the power of pvssy around here, the most appealing thing to me about women is their shape. The fullness of her bosom, the slimness of her waist, the curve of her behind, the softness of her legs, the hourglass shape, the flowing hair, the large eyes and small nose and chin...

It seems to me they would still be objects of beauty. It's practically impossible to disconnect that with the promise of intercourse though.

But really, if it's just the act of sex, why would guys always be focused on the next one? Why the need for variety? Guys like the look of the next hot girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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For me, my favorite essence of a woman is her youthful aura, soft skin and girlie voice, so I mainly like to just be next to (and massage) a girl who likes me and who talks to me openly. Sex is a by product, so I wouldn't say they would be useless without it. That said, it's not worth marrying for. If you want kids you have to sacrifice your life basically.
 

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Danger said:
Good point.

Most men first have to realize they are losing their self-respect for a vag, before they can learn how to properly game a woman.

If you sacrifice respect for a chance at pu$$y, it's a good indicator you are getting very little and you have yet to fully grasp the game.
Not understanding this post.
 

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Men need to just stay the hell away from women, until they have enough money to retire on, basically. Then MAYBE the financial drain that ALL women cost you will be tolerable! :) Actually, it's the stupid mistake of having KIDS that ruins everything.
 

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What about the fact that you would have the ability to converse with a girl, and notice that there are actually interesting things about them. Are you saying that guys are the only ones who can be interesting to talk to? Are you gay?
Last time I checked, I wasn't gay. Iceberg Is kinda hot though!:D
 

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I tell my friends this all the time--if girls didn't have vages, they would be the loneliest creatures on earth. who would want them? i certainly wouldn't. i connect much better with my guy friends who share a lot of the same hobbies, interests, ideas, etc. i would probably date a dude if we all had the same parts.

we don't though, so chasing the mighty gina is what i'm here to do
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women would have to take care of themselves. Men would never put up with the nonsense women love to engage in so their would be no equal rights. Women would be treated like dogs and left to fend for themselves like feral wild cats. They would degrade into male hating superstitious witches. They would form strange covens and align themselves with their coven to the exclusion of all other women. They would sit around and sew stuff together. There would be rumors of them killing and eating each other in the darkness. Maybe they would have their own island or something, they would have to sterilize the island first so there no "yucky" bugs and stuff. This would give way to new breeds of vampiric creatures and insects forced to survive from period blood off of dirty tampons and such. Cats would run rampant and wild, maybe also giving way to a new breed of cats that eats blood filled roaches born with natural rabies or just b1tchier than normal cats.

Oh and W00t this is my 420 post!
 
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